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The AfterStuff of D Kyzer
I guess it SHOULD be afterMATH, but math bores me. Stuff is cool. This is a place where my insanity goes. (Or at least some of it.) There may be a little bit of quotable thinking here, but those moments will probably be few and far between.
Labels
Welcome back to The AfterStuff. It's been awhile since I've added to this journal, but I finally got an entry request. One of my friends have asked me to add an entry about Labels, not like price tags, but like general assumptions. Here goes!

Everyone has a label, whether we like it or not. This label will undergo slight alterations throughout our lives, but it does exist. So, you shouldn't go through life trying to get people not to label you. Instead, let them make their label. Allow them to think what they think they want to think. Just keep being you. People will get to know you, reguardless of how much they may dislike it. If your label's wrong, time will have it fixed. If it's right, time'll probably break it a few times. See, a label is like a mask. People hide you behind that mask, and begin to think of that mask as you. But as time goes on, the mask will get old, crack, break here and there... Then people will see the real you. They'll fill in the cracks, repair the mask as best as they can, but once they've seen you, they won't forget who you really are. They can't pretend you're a mask anymore. That mask will change, every time somebody sees who you are. The mask will never look quite like you. No person can paint the perfect picture. No person can write the perfect song. No person, no matter what, can completely and fully understand what you've been made to be. They can see glimpses. They can see fragments. But the whole of you, belongs to you and God.






User Comments: [6]
-Colorful-Kisses-
Community Member





Sat Dec 29, 2007 @ 12:17pm


well kyzer my good friend...........you have wowed me again.........i love it! thank you for taking my request! that changed my whole outlook on lables it really did i always hated them and tried to change peoples minds but now ill just let it go and not let it bother thank you so much ^^


CrystalShyner
Community Member





Fri Jan 04, 2008 @ 06:03am


I have practically lived with labels, and I really hate the ones given to me. But...I have come to a conclusion that it was all my own fault. If I was a different way, then maybe I would be "normal" like everyone else. I guess I had some positive effects from my labels (of which I don't really like to mention) too. Anyway, thanks for making me think more about something I don't usually reflect upon.

~Em

By the way, a friend Xx_EviLVaMPreSs_xX told me about your journal. (Just in case you don't think I am some stalker or something. Haha.)


-M a i k a i - U h a n e-
Community Member





Fri Jan 04, 2008 @ 06:05am


I have a completely different outlook on labels now. You are so right about this, once again, amazing!


deleteagent48
Community Member





Fri Jan 04, 2008 @ 06:22am


This apparently got to me in chain form, from CrystalShyner here and I'm glad it was brought to my attention. Your outlook on this topic is like none I've ever read. Very unique, and oh so true. It gives me a different view on the subject and of my experiences and will be sure to remember how you put this in words whenever I'm up against it again, not that labeling has terribly affected me in the long run emotionally.


iMythy
Community Member





Fri Jan 04, 2008 @ 01:49pm


Emotions are naught to be tormented


Hmm...A friend told me to read your journal....She was right! biggrin
You're absolutly amazing!



for they can kill a person in more ways than one


Spaceisthefinalfrontier
Community Member





Wed Jan 09, 2008 @ 01:20am


I will show this to my friends thanks whee


User Comments: [6]
 
 
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