• I couldn’t believe she was doing this to hurt me. Because she did not want to keep the baby, I stepped up and did the right thing. I kept the baby that we “accidently” produced. The baby the will “ruin” our social lives. After the pregnancy she wanted to call it quits. She told me that I was different and that was hindering her from continue to love me. Six and a half years being together, through high school and some of college, she now sees something in me that hinder her from loving me. Only thing that has changed I have stepped up my responsibilities. I have a daughter now that I will raise with the best of my ability. But I had to put her s**t on top of all that I was already worrying about. Because she wanted to have a custody battle. Of all the ways a person can hurt another she picks my child! This is like an animal going instinctively for the throat. I couldn’t believe this. She didn’t want the child after she got a few hours of sleep after she was out of her and now all of a sudden she wants her back. That has to be the shittiest thing I have ever heard and most ******** up action I have ever seen.

    I know one thing; she will not have my child. I say my child because she disowned it. It was not I who produced this baby. It was “we”. It was “we” who got drunk on her birthday which inhibited our thinking and not using protection. And when we sobered up we found out that none was used. When she was late and officially found out that she was pregnant, I did not punk out and ask, “What are you going to do?” I asked what “we” were going to do. She didn’t believe in abortion so I figured she didn’t want to keep it. Until she fell into depression. She took no advice from our parents. She didn’t read the material that was needed to properly care for “our” child. Several times I caught her smoking a cigarette. And she didn’t just light it up. She would almost be done with it. I was furious and thought to myself how stupid could a person be. So when I look at my daughter, I don’t see a mistake. I see a bundle of joy that has changed my life and my mentality on things. She has given me things that I have never had. And to be honest with all the work, school, and extracurricular activities I am involved in. I make time for my daughter. And they are not wee hours of the night either. And I don’t treat her like she’s some appointment. There are days that I don’t even want to leave her side.

    So let her come. This is a fight I will stick to till the end. I will fight for my daughter so that she is not in the hands of someone that will not give her the life she deserves. Who will view her as an accident; I will not see my daughter be disowned again… I will win this fight.