• As you go around in your life, you experience different "friendships" which shape you and define you. As time goes on, you look back and think about your old friends and you may realize different things about them. Some may be the people who were always there for you, or other may be the fun people who you always hung around but didn't really like, but you see who were your real friends as well as you fake ones. As you examine your past, take notes and decide who you want to be. Surround yourself by people who care about you and you are bound to succeed.