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I apologize to everyone that I havent been on lately. A very very close friend of mine has just lost her father, and she's leaning on me and our friend a lot. Im very stressed and worried about her. I feel helpless. How can I change things? What should I do to make her feel better? I truly feel like I'm losing my mind, and I'm not even the one whose dad died. Imagine how she must feel...Now shes developing a stress based eating disorder. I had a dream of her dying..and I woke up sobbing...Now her grandma is dying of cancer. She just left for LA to be with her grandma and retrieave some of her father's belonging and ashes. She keeps asking us all of these horrible questions...Questions we can never answer.Then she starts to cry, and it breask my heart to see her cry, and I know he feels the same way. The most I can do right now is talk to her, make her laugh, and give her the best dvice I can. But right now, I feel like I could use some advice myself.She refuses to go see the school counsilor. And I dont know what else I can do. Please...I feel like Im about to cry..I need some help here...