Its odd, that many people will go to such lengths to bury there pains, to loose there sorrows, and cover there scars.
It’s for the trouble of being labeled as messed up or not being normal or something that keeps them from doing so,
a lot of the time though its not there fault that these things happen but they take it out on themselves and are told it is and even the people who say the things don’t even know the extent of there pain and the length of there past.
but in all reality I think that the biggest problem with today is that people don’t learn from the past, but they just keep pushing on, they just take it one day at a time, like someone swinging from one tree to the next, not actually holding on enough to remember what piece of life they obtain but long enough to get through it.
Not only that but nobody ever will face up to anything either. Nobody ever just takes the blame to try to fix the situation, but they just pass the buck. Our society has gone from peace and love, and freedom to hate and revenge, a path to nothing but hurt and sorrow.
What people really need is lighter though, cause with it, I think that people could probably pull through some stuff that they need to.
Another thing id likes to mention is that why it is that nobody looks at the real people in power when stuff is going wrong.
srsly, like many times people will be like "oh, these stupid Mexicans..." and im like yea, so what, some people wanna come over the border and work, hell your ancestors were immigrants to, and a lot of these workers are legal. Most Mexicans are not Mexicans at all but are actually Americans. So when in doubt and frustration, blame the gov. for the things that they fail to change in this newer society.
Anyhow, back to the black text.
Telling someone about your past is something that almost anyone wouldn’t do. There is just so much crap for some people, maybe you as you’re reading this, but they carry it alone. Now why is it today that we are not a better people, someone who can go and just listen to other person’s problems and be a little less selfless, and caring only about themselves
When people were put on this here earth I think that we were not just to keep each other company, I think that we are also here to help one another, to lighten each others loads and keep sanity on earth.
Now, for girls this is a lot easier, cause they have there groups and are like constantly like poor me, and give me attention, (assuming they haven’t had many a horrible things happen to them) (but before I get to that)
But for the guys, we don’t like to show our feelings, that way were not labeled as weak, or lame or anything like that, and if you’re a guy you know what I mean. But that doesn’t mean you have to keep it all to yourself, srsly, if you need help with stuff, ask around n get the information you need, and if you do have a problem, don’t just be like my life sux, be like hey,( to a close friend)”can you help me out with some stuff” n they’ll be like yea, sure, then be like yea, I need to do “__this__” could you tell me how to get to my goal, witch would be your , what you need.
Now as for girls, srsly, if your hair is out of whack n your bf got you the wrong something for a present, srsly shut up already. Now for the rest of you , the ones who have faced problems such as abuse, rape, ect., get help with that, if you in a situation where this is happening to you, try to get away, then if you can not do so, alert the authorities. I know that cops can be like pigs, (though they don’t always smell like bacon) but there to help the general public.
As for sharing things, consult someone you know who is not going to spread your secrets, and your past and other private matters. Like I wouldn’t recommend telling any girls stuff, its best to find the right person you can tell and become friends with that person, and there’s quite a few of them, probably at least 1 to every 20 people, maybe less, idk
But mostly, don’t hold it in, release that tension, release your anger, release your despair, you don’t need it and its never going to help you out latter in life. So ditch it like bad pop corn >.<
Anyway, ill follow up on this latter, its like 10:40, and ive gotta get up at woo fripity whooo 5:00 am (like every day until I graduate)
Well night all, (sorry if I sound like im lecturing, which I basically am, but I mean it all fro the good of you and those around yourself, I don’t try to make it make you feel bad, or anything like that.
And if any of you want to tell me anything, just pm me, and ill gladly to listen to anything you want to get off your chest
Well night
Love
~Ryan~
Ryan_The_Random Community Member 
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