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The fact that everyone thinks there is a level above friends, there is not. If you look at really close friends and lovers, the love they all share is pretty much the same. I have a dear friend, we cuddle and hug, even tell each other we love one another. Even though there is no sexual attraction, it is love. In my personal opinion it is the same as a lover, and I don't see the difference from a close friend and a lover because it is the exact same. People think a lover is something special, its actually pretty common. See, most thing about people is that they ignore the friends while they are off with their "lover". Bestfriends are forgotten and the friendship fades. From my experience, there is no difference between a friend and a lover when two people love each other. By saying "there is, you have sex." Friends can have sex as well, sex isn't everything and if that is all you think about or even have that during most your relationship then its pretty much what a lover is based on instead of affection. To most people a lover is who you have sex with. Look at it this way, if all your relationship is just for sex then there is no love there, its all lust. Lust takes up half of your relationship anyway. True love doesn't come from lust or having pleasure. It comes from the hearts and souls...it comes from the affection we give to one another. To most people there is a barrior, but from my experience a friend literally is a lover. No matter how much you denie this fact...close friends are lovers as well.


The fact that people ignore their friends for one person is stupid. People that do that are stupid. The people whom are important to me are my friends, not that one person. I don't even believe in the "one" person. For me there is none, they are all my own. All important, all special. I love them all dearly and never in a million years would I give them up just for one person. That would be stupid and mean...

In conclusion, what most people believe in is a lie. Friends are lovers reguardless of ones belief...because in my experience it proves all who believe they are not wrong. 3nodding

To my friends, I loves ya! ^_^ heart heart heart