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Death thoughts I am neither sad or happy. I may have returned for the time being but if I was to just leave again, I may not just say it I may actually do it. At this point I feel like hurting my self to just...get rid of everything. I feel like its better if I don't live anyways. No one really views me as most important, its always someone else for them. Since I practacly have NOBODY there is no reason for me to live anymore. I guess I say that alot but thats how it feels. Somewhere down the line...it may even happen. I'm not important to anyone anymore. emo

Posted by: Xenith Magnus Sat Apr 14, 2007 @ 03:33am

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Commented on: Sat Apr 14, 2007 @ 11:33am


	Awwww, Ray. I got to talk to 'him,' but I only got a very small infomation from what's been going on and from the sound of it, it seems like you need to be talked into some things. I really don't want to hurt your feelings and I really, really hope it doesn't sound all bitchy or anything, but I have to say a few things. It's not meant to offend you or anything, but I'm hoping what I got to say will help you change a little here and there and for you to become a better person. . . 1) As much as you had and/or may still do have feelings for 'him,' you shouldn't push people beyond what they can do. -- From what I can say, and have said while you were still with us, is that in relationships everything has to be balanced. Very little or overly caring could tip the relationship over. In this case, you were being overly caring and perhaps being a little persistant/possesive. 2) Relationships are meant to be taken slow and at an easy pace, where both partners are quite comfortable at where they are until they feel like taking the next step to go to a higher level in the relationship. -- Ok. . . I still need to get your part of the story, but from what I've gotten from 'him,' you were being rather persistant in a way that you were like biting more than you could swallow or asking for more than what could be given. As I have said above, you need to slow down and settle in on the relationship before you move onto the bigger stuff, such as marriage (and I guess this is where you two got stressed alittle too). You need to take your time and not be like rushing as if tomorrow is the end of the world or something like that.

Commented on: Sat Apr 14, 2007 @ 11:47am


	3) Possession of your partner and/or pressuring someone to stay with you is like one of the biggest no-no's out there. -- It may sound cool to some people, but it's mostly kinda creepy, if you know what I mean. Anyways, yea. . . by doing so, you make yourself sound desperate and a lot of people really don't like to have desperate partners. Also, by doing this, it's like keeping your partner on a short and I mean, short leash, in a way that they could be on their own and be having fun and out of nowhere, you're possessiveness 'tugged' on the leash, pulling your partner away from their fun. . . . well, I think that's pretty much it I have to say. If not, I'll just keep adding them up until I'm sure I have them all said. * sorry if I used 'him' to replace his actual name. I wasn't sure if it would like upset you with just reading over his name or anything. And as I have said, sorry if anything I had commented was offensive, it's not to be taken in that kind of matter. Also, I know what I had to say wasn't much to prove my point, but I just thought it might have helped a bit. . .

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