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Hmmmmm...let's seeeeeee.........Just because he's the first person you've ever "been" with, doesn't mean you should stay with him. You may "love" him, but he might not have the feelings to return anymore. You, don't want to drift in life, while he does, this creates a crutial factor in your relationship, making it so boring i wanna stab i eyeballs out. Last but not least, when you spend time together, you just argue, which goes to show that your interests and ideals have strayed far from eachother, basically making, or at least close to, being incompatible with eachother. Now, all of this is just based on short-term thinking, and only half of the entire situation, as it is from exclusively your viewpoint, and thus you shouldn't take these words to heart. However, if he refuses to leave when you ask him, i think it's safe to say that the relationship is heading towards an abusive aspect, where he'll respect you, and your privacy less. Breaking up with him will prove difficult, for with your example shown on how he refuses to leave, it'll put a dent in his mental mind, and cause him to act violently if that is his nature. blah blah blah blah i'm sick of typing