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Everyone I know seems to be falling in love, getting their hearts torn, becoming more lonely, or being too obsessed with the one that they "claim" they like. To be quite honest I wonder why some people fall in love, is it the heart that tells them that they love that person, or is it their mind? Are they even sure that they love that person? Many people think that they love a certain person, but in reality, it's a big joke. Some love is real, while many others are just for that person's fun to play with the other's heart. When I went to MoMo Con with my love, I wondered, does he love me? Never can you really know if someone loves you, but I guess that if you do, you'll stick to that person forever. Love is something that can betray you and can make you very ill inside, or it can make you more happier than you have ever been. Who's to say though, that if you love someone, you are going to stick with them? Many of the young people today, are having their hearts torn apart on account of their low maturity on the topic of "Love." They say that she/he loves them, but they end up having bad things happen to them. I wonder why some of the young are ignorant to think that. With love comes maturity and responsibility, I just wish that those who fall in love and that are very young would understand that, it would certainly help them from the grief or trials they may have to go through. There are so many people in which I would want to say, "Just wait, wait until you're older until you can say to someone 'I love you,' it would help you in the long run." I dunno some people turn out fine later on, however...Anyway, my love and I would rather wait until we're mature to take on a responsibilty to actually have a relationship, that way we'll know for sure if this is right.