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Animalfreakie911
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Dear Midnight Mourner: Regarding Friends
Dear Midnight Mourner,
Ok....cassie iz buggin the hell outta me! I just want her to go away and stop rubbing stuff in my face and leaving me when we r talking. But i really dont like hurting ppl and if i tell her i dont wanna be friends she will come up with an excuse to call me and befriend me again....i really need help so HELP ME BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY! Luv imouto-chan ^^

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Okay, that up there is my first question! It was actually from my friend ^^ Hehe, but I didnt know she was going to ask one, suprisngly ^^ Okay imouto-chan, here is your answer, finally:

Okay, if thats how things are between you two ppl are, there are two ways to deal with her.

1. You can talk to her and try and salvage this friendship. Tell her you don't like how she rubs your nose in things and leaves you in the middle of a convo. Tell her everything that she could possible change to mend this broken friendship.

2. If you have too, if you know she can't change, she doesn't want to try or whatever, then you slowly walk away from the friendship. Little changes she wont really notice. You say you're going somewere or doing something when she calls and hang up, block her or become invisible soon after she starts a convo on AIM or yahoo messanger. Do little things, soon she'll walk away, stop trying, relize shes lost you.

Hope this answers your question, and hope this may answer or help others also ^^ Can't wait for another question to come my way! Caamment or PM!


Life's hard and Memories hurt, but sometimes you gotta let things go, you know? But sometimes, you have to face the past to let it go...[/color:ecde9333ee]




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iWinnie
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comment Commented on: Mon Jul 07, 2008 @ 06:34pm
I've had a lot of problems with friends. Don't give a lot of chances to people because it will eventually blow up in your face. sweatdrop


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