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I fear for David and Lauren.

It's been a year and she is still leading him on a bit. She wants to feel wanted, I totally understand that, but she knows what she does to him. She giggles and prances and then shuts it off, and its killing him.

Not to mention all the "man traps" as Dave so colorfully put it. She'll ask him questions that there are no good answers to, and then give him the silent treatment. Or make it sound like he no longer desires her, or wants to date her.

As bad as it sounds, and I hate to say it, she can be emotionally manipulative and I don't know if it's the most healthy relationship for them to be in right now.

I want to see my brother happy. I want to see my roommate happy. And they are happy together, for the most part. It's just that they can both be a little sensitive and don't do a good job of avoiding the big read "Do not PUSH" buttons that they both have.

I'm worried for how this will turn out.

I still stand by that it would be totally cool to have her as a sister-in-law one day. I just don't want them to end up resenting each other.