Fishy's been in a bad mood lately. It may because finals are up, or because she's INSANELY tired, but she's been nit-picky and very observant of others rude behaviours and lack of responsiblity. Let alone all the lame excuses they make for little things. You would be surprised how many average people use excuses and handicap themselves.
While on that note... I need to say this. DONT MAKE EXCUSES! THEY'RE LAME AND FULL OF CRAP! YOU KNOW ITS STUPID AND YOU KNOW ITS BAD! SO DONT DO IT! They may be small, but every excuse you make for yourself is making you handicapped! Like saying, " I have a disorder" or "My mom made me do it..." YOURE SO FULL OF CRAP!!! scream
When you say something like "I have a disorder" you are automatically making people think lower of you! Why do you do it? Most humans dont like being looked down upon. Maybe you dont realize it, but its like saying "Im just a...." "It's just..." It gives someone a reason to look down on you! Or whatever that thing is! Why do that!? It makes no sense what-so-ever! Goodness...
But when you say something like "My mom made me" you are personally lacking responsability for your actions. For example! I have a freind who says, its her mom's fault that she smokes. That her mom is driving her to smoke. Okay... Her mom doesnt smoke so she hasnt lived with it... The only way it could possibly be her mom's fault is the fact that her mom would shove the cigarette in her mouth and hold her at gun point telling her to smoke the stupid thing. But no. No matter how realistic you may think that is, its not true. (sarcasm. Anyone who thinks that's possible needs to go grow a brain.. >> wink She tells me that its because she's 'stressed' and she 'cant handle it all anymore'. Whatever! Could you get anymore emo!? (No offence... >>;;; ) The only reason you smoke now is because youre ADDICTED! And you dont seem to care what happens to you! Have some self respect woman!!! scream But whatever... I cant control your life. No one can. Its up to you...
Thats the thing. People so desperatly want others to tell them what to do, but teenagers for sure cant STAND being told what they should do so they rebel. Why ask then? Why bother? You know that you can make decisions, just you have to make sure that its okay with your peers so you wont get made fun of. People naturally pick out others faults just to make themselves feel better. And if you know that it hurts other people, why do it? Why are people so cruel and evil? If we know there is a problem why do we keep it going? You are aware that something bad is happening... You know right from wrong... Why would you do that? Do you have no feeling what-so-ever for anyone other than yourself? Thats called being self centered for those who dont know. But think about what things could be like if we could stop doing that...
Then there's the lack of responsiblitiy now a days. Im sorry if I sound like a ranting old grandma, but truely... Think about it. We'll get on the topic of rudeness later. <3 Promise. Why are people so scared to take responsability for their own actions? Yes they may be bad consequences, but you know... It's your fault to begin with. You should have thought it out before doing anything. Its a ripple effect. Not only is it unfair to your peers, but also for yourself. It goes along with the whole excuses part. Instead of making excuses like, "I cant do this." Why not say, "Ill try and then if I cant do it, Ill try again and do better." Dont you realize that there is so much one person could do if you just stopped saying, "I cant" And start saying, "Ill try" or better yet, "I can do this." You arent being fair to yourself! The reason you say you cant is because youre afraid to FAIL. Yes, I said it. Secretly you ARE afraid of that very word. Thats why people dont do things! They're afraid that someone might see them make a mistake. What could happen if people werent so afraid anymore? Think of the possiblities! So many things could happen for the best!
When I say all this stuff I want to say, Im not saying Im completely perfect. Im one of the most defective persons you'll ever meet, but it's been getting at me lately. There are so many things that people dont do or say just for being worried what others will say, or what they'll do. Im not saying its always safe, because some things can get you in serious trouble, but that just means that people need to stop JUDGEING to. Its a two way agreement guys. Things only go when both sides agree. Instead of looking at things youre bad at, focus and praise yourself at what youre good at... Or try and FIX, yes F-I-X, what you dont do so well... Work on it. Eventually it will get better.
Well, the last thing, since I have to get off, (May put more later) is rudeness factors of people anf teenagers a like. People dont realize that certain things are rude. Interupting people, talking during presentations of any time, Moving around while people are trying to talk to you, during presentations. If someone is talking to you, that means that its most likely possibly something of value. Just sit still and keep your yap shut!
Gotta go get off. TO BE CONTINUED!
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