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You go ahead and vent. It is better out. All of your friends here will give you the support they can from where they are at. *hugs tight* He sounds very insecure with himself. But ya know, when I met him, he seemed confident and relaxed. Was it all for show is what I am wondering now. It is terrible that Alicia is put in the middle and she probably feels displaced in her home. Give her a hug from me please. Listen, call me if there is anything I can do for you two. I don't know what it may be, but I will figure it out. I love ya girl.

What Stumble said!

*huggles* Catt, you don't need someone who's gonna make you feel like that! Sure he's probably got his good points, you wouldn't have looked twice otherwise, but you need a life too hunny and if he doesn't trust you enough to let you do what you want then he's no good for you.

Maybe he's been crapped on in the past and that's what made him so insecure, but that's no excuse to treat you the way he is. After all you've been together long enough to have proved to him that you're not about to s**t on him. If he hasn't realised that by now then he never will. And without trust there's nothing.

You CAN do this on your own. You've got amazing friends here who, although we can't actually be there with you, are still here for you! And that in iteself is proof that you're worth more than being stuck at home hiding yourself from the world.

You deserve to be happy. Don't let him drag you down.

Yea, I hear ya. I am having some trouble here too. not nearly as bad as yours though. My boss is trying to get fired so she can collect unemployment insurance, and in turn is making life difficult for all of us in turn. Shes also setting up things so when she does get fired, it will be a horrible, disorganized mess. Hey you want to move out here? We have openings! and I'll be a reference wink we need good people in purchasing and sales! whad'ya think?

sorry it posted twice when I refreshed the page. thats my bad! redface

aww cat - *hugs*
i just want to give my support to your happiness.
You deserve to be happy and I hope you can be.
So sorry - relationship stress is the hardest in my opinion.

Sorry to say, but I think that you might have to leave him and try to something better. God knows you deserve it. It will take time of course, but I'm sure that you and your daughter will be fine.

I'll third wha Stumble said and second wha Nuffy said, if there is ANYTHING i can do to help dont hesiatate to drop me a message you have multiple ways to do so, YOU deserve SO much better and I really hope you get it, I want you to be happy, you bein unhappy wont help Alicia, she's old enough to see and understand wha ya "ex" is doin to you, you are an AMAZING woman kind caring thoughtful and gorgeous and don't you forget it! Any guy with half an ounce of common sense would give his right arm and his left to be with you and would trust you with his life, everyone suffers with a lil jealousy but lockin you away from the world tha's the act of a controlling psychopath!!!! Get out GET OUT, i know it will be difficult but i know you'll find a way! If i was closer i would hide you and Alicia at mine and help you any way i could. I love ya hunny as does all your other friends here! and i think tha can be seen quite clearly by the response you've had to your rant we all care and worry bout you and jus wanna see you happy *big hugs and loves and successful thoughts your way*