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Are you bi?
yes
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 91%  [ 32 ]
no
8%
 8%  [ 3 ]
Total Votes : 35


Super Cy

PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2007 9:44 pm


Do your boy friends ever have a problem with you bisexuality. I know this seem weird, but when i discovered that i was in fact, bi, I told my b/f of the time, but he didn't really like it so much. So after we broke up, my next b/f knew I was bi before i ever dated him, but he didn't really approve of it. He is a cool guy and all, and knew i would never cheat on him but he didn't like the fact i checked out girls. Of course that got on my nerves and i broke up with him (and dated a girl to peeve him off). But that's how most of my boyfriends are. My current boyfriend love the me and doesn't care about my sexuality. Actually I told him i wanted one of my friends and he said he did to so we had a threesome (she wanted us). But the problem is that he really doesn't approve of gay relationships. And when we were talking one night he said that sometimes the thought of my bi-ness actually makes him sick, and that all homo relationships are wrong. Are all guys really like this? Am i just that screwed??? ninja  
PostPosted: Sun May 27, 2007 10:02 am


Er, not all guys are like that, no.
I'm bisexual, and the guy I'm -technically- dating is also, so it works. :'D
Maybe it's just the ones around where you live?
Religion might play a key role in that, also.

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IfAngelsBurn

PostPosted: Sun May 27, 2007 1:30 pm


My boyfriend doesn't like it all that much, but he learns to deal with it. I told him if he can't love me enough to get over that, than he can go and find someone else, because I am not changing who I am for anyone.
PostPosted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 10:15 pm


I'm bi....and all the guys I know as friends love the fact I'm bi the guys I dated in the past also seemed to like it...so it depends on the guy really...their probably just homophobic!!

>_> I'm a girl...who leans more to girls then guys lol

Xx-Tragic Dream-xX


Skizzors
Crew

PostPosted: Sat Jun 23, 2007 8:36 pm


who has a threesome and then says homosexuality is wrong. seriously wtf.
PostPosted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 2:50 pm


I am always scared of that happening, because bi people are disliked by both hetero and homo sexual people, but I have never had problems with any of my boyfriends or girlfriends. Only my just friends and my family.

the_haunted_boy


Macha76

PostPosted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 8:53 am


I've been in a same sex relationship with someone for years now and I think there are times when she feels threatened by my male friends where as if I weren't bi there would be no threat.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 5:57 pm


The girl I dated hated that I was bi. The guy I dated liked it until I hung all over my best friend who's a girl and who I'm dating now. I dumped the guy because even though I would never have cheated he wanted me to stop hanging out with my friend Jo. He was threatened by her. I hang on all my friends but it was her he was threatened by.

PhinaReiBrasil


Iori_Yagami1990

PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 6:02 pm


I am bi sexual, and I am currently with no one. It isn't just guys either, some girls are like that too. But, mostly guys are like that.
PostPosted: Sat Sep 15, 2007 7:30 pm


By all if you only mean guys who are massly into religion and who are up there own a** then yes they are =/ for other men not so much =/

Enyaron


ChildrenForBreakfast

PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 8:07 am


I agree the religion has a big thing to do with whether you find people that are bisexual to be wrong. No one has ever had a problem with me being bi that I know of, and I live in the freakin' bible belt. But that's just because I hang out with very open minded people.
PostPosted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 5:59 pm


Super Cy
Do your boy friends ever have a problem with you bisexuality. I know this seem weird, but when i discovered that i was in fact, bi, I told my b/f of the time, but he didn't really like it so much. So after we broke up, my next b/f knew I was bi before i ever dated him, but he didn't really approve of it. He is a cool guy and all, and knew i would never cheat on him but he didn't like the fact i checked out girls. Of course that got on my nerves and i broke up with him (and dated a girl to peeve him off). But that's how most of my boyfriends are. My current boyfriend love the me and doesn't care about my sexuality. Actually I told him i wanted one of my friends and he said he did to so we had a threesome (she wanted us). But the problem is that he really doesn't approve of gay relationships. And when we were talking one night he said that sometimes the thought of my bi-ness actually makes him sick, and that all homo relationships are wrong. Are all guys really like this? Am i just that screwed??? ninja

hmm not sure about this one


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Miyanda

PostPosted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 3:18 am


Skizzors
who has a threesome and then says homosexuality is wrong. seriously wtf.
Hahaha, that's what I was thinking.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 7:50 pm


Not all guys are like that. A lot tend to be, but my boyfriend isn't. In fact sometimes we will go off on how some girl is hot, and then afterwards I'll laugh since I always find it funny we do that, and he agrees.

It could also have to do with the fact he's bi-in-denial. I mean, we started playing Enzai together. (the only time I got nervous about that was when he stared at me just to hear me yell "what?")

But anyways.

Don't worry so much. It'll probably just take a while to find a guy who's ok with it, since most tend to be "homophobes."

Marvealle


Kiwidacute

PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 1:09 pm


my ex hated the fact that i was bi too >.< he said he couldn't stand the thought of me kissing someone else and even worse that i would kiss someone of the same sex I'm not sure if all guys are like that but the ones i have dated all seem to be the same in that regard
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