Okay, I've been with this guy for 23 weeks (as of yesterday) and I thought that given time I would come to feel something for him or his feelings for me would fade. Now it's been nearly 6 months and neither has happened. His notes to me say that he's IN LOVE WITH ME while I, sadly, feel nothing at all. There's no aversion to him but nor is there attraction. It feels like I'm playing a part, like I'm practicing for when the real thing comes along.
But I don't love him and everyone but him can that.
I need some help....because I've hurt him before and I'm with him again so he doesn't feel the pain of unrequited love that I felt for two years. So, I guess it's either pity or compassion.
The words "I love you" have become like poison to my mouth. A medicine I don't want to take but do as a force of habit. What should I do?
It's A Girl Thing! ♥
A Family, A Home.
Reply | ||||||
|
|