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Alright, I have a theory that a darker lifestyle leads to a darker sexuality. Myself, I am interested in minor S&M activities. It's odd because I despise inferiority, yet some of these aforementioned activities are based solely on that concept.

Any thoughts or comments on S&M?

I'm not sure what my thoughts are on this. Or on sexuality in general, for that matter. (Crazy, I know.) In some ways I am attracted and fascinated by it. But I am also frightened as well. As with just about anything sexual. I have issues or complexes or something. :: sigh ::

I'm more into bondage and sado-masochism than domination and submission.
I'm not one to overly dominate nor be submissive in such a situation; I like to be at an equal stance. But I'm turned on by pain, and bondage is just fun because you can get creative ^_~

I've partaken in some mild S&M, but nothing too outrageous as of yet, but I'm still pretty young, and have plenty of time to expiriment in the future. I just have always been extremely turmed on by pain, and the fact that I'm switch also allows me to relieve myself of negative energy.

As for my views on it, I can see how some people may be against it, but I see it as a personal choice. If you and your partner want to have a bit of fun with whips and chains, who am I to say it's wrong... just as if you don't want to partake in S&M, then whatever.

The only negative thing I can forsee happening with it is if the dom dosn't understand the meaning of 'no', and dosn't respect the subs wishes if the sub is restrained... but that's why the only people I have expirimented with have been people whom I would trust my life with.

It's funny...since I'm a feminist and whatnot, I have this strange hatred--I mean HATRED--of inferiority. Except during intimate activities. If (s)he respects me and knows that what happens here stays here, then some rough stuff is fine. No whips or masks for me though. I'm sort of a switch but I like to receive more than to dish out.

I'm a closet pansexual (in denial). I hate bi-sexual people, asin the lust, not love thing. So, so, few actually understand or feel love. (I'm a hopeless romantic) I'm a switch, only if the other person really wants to be dominant. I'm fairyly agressive...and I bite. Bondage is fun, barely done any though. Pain is lovely, if I'm in a good mood, otherwise, its just plain pain.

I don't really like the idea of masks, or being tied up to an extent were you actually can't remove you hand. I don't like hitting people...

And I only said this, cause I know none of my friends will read this.

While the theory has its flaws, I would say that is a sound one. Most of the so-called "Darker" types tend to have a more open mind in matters of sexuality and human nature in general. It's not an uncommon thought. But it's a valid one.

Anyways... Back to the point....

Yes, many of us do partake in the taboo sexual lifestyle. I myself am willing to try almost anything once. If I like it, it'll be put into my bag of tricks. Sadism, Masochism, S&M, feminization, all of it is a good time if you ask me.

But I still like bloodplay the best.

Enjoy, kiddos.

Ah, This could be analyzed!
you spend all your life loathing weakness and lack of control.
Sooo! When you find yourself in an intimate situation, your entire view of the world is just Flipped upside down, imploding into the very core of your conciousness!
And you get all submissive!
Or something!!! heart