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Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 6:22 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 29, 2006 5:53 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 29, 2006 8:18 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 6:41 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 6:49 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 8:06 am
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I think hitting your children is very wrong, and that there's other methods to punish your child, like taking priveledges away and such.
Now, my parents spanked me, and I have a vile hatred for them and it's really hard to get along with them most of the time, because they still threaten me.
Now, my brother and I get away with A LOT more than what my older siblings did [ They're almost 39 and 37 ] but that still doesn't mean anything. My older brother that still lives at home [ He's 22 ] got away with pretty much everything, and still does, actually.
Like he hits me, and I tell my dad. I get the blame for it. Anyway, I'm off topic I think.
A parent should never hit a child because they're angry. That's just wrong. And it's scarred me for life because my parents did it to me.
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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 10:46 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 11:02 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 2:54 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 11:52 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 1:48 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 11:36 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 3:08 pm
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I don't know how I would act, but I know I've gotten too smart, so most punishments don't effect me at all.
hitting-I got used to it as a kid. It doesn't work. I'd go and do stupid things anyways. Now I'm a masochist, go figure. Anyways, If the kid doesn't understand what they did was wrong and how it was wrong, it most definately won't work. Also, it's not uncommon that when the parents see hitting won't work, they'll just go a little bit farther each time in hope it will. This didn't happen to me, thankfully.
grounding-Lol, this is a pathetic form of punishment. Another thing the kid just becomes dull to. None of us really need to be social if we see people at school, especially people we like. Now, I stay inside so much that my mom doesn't consider this a punishment for me, either.
lack of privilages-Kids just sit in front of the T.V.. Privilage, sure, but if you keep them off it long enough, you'll realize they don't truly care. Taking away toys is even more pathetic since any kid can make anything into a toy. No snacks. Okay, that's a healthy punishment, but it won't exactly make them learn. Plus, they can get all that at most schools now.
starvation-Once again, the kid won't learn. They'll either become sneaky and find ways to get food or go along with it anyways. If a kid is starved too often, it is considered neglect, a form of abuse. There have been countless cases where kids have died from starvation. I think it was only about a month the average ADULT can go with out food before death. Common sense says it's a lot less for kids.
Now, my little brother is in the whole situation with the grades, too. The thing is, he doesn't care for his grades, so he didn't even bother turning in the slip. Even if he did, he wouldn't go. Sure, my mom would probably kick him out, but he'd just go somewhere else. And, if she got so desperate as to drop him off the school herself, she'd have to pay for the transportation. Also, he's done this before, too, he'd find a way to get the school to kick him out. Summer school usually has a zero tolerance policy, so acting up a few days in a row is enough to get him kicked out. By the way, summer school here is free.
What ever the parent does, there needs to be some sort of communication understood from both sides of what is right and what is wrong. My brother has been spoiled to the core since he was a baby, and he needs serious counseling at this point because he has anger problems and is diagnosed with ADHD. The way you treat a kid at the start can greatly effect how they come out as adults.
The only good unsuccessful punishment has done for me is that it is much easier for me to find loop holes in anything. Unfortunately, I am also argumentative and stubborn.
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 3:54 pm
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