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 Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 8:24 pm
Hey guys. My best friend and I have been talking and visiting each other sinced I moved away from her. But I'm always the one calling her or e-mailing her. She hasn't really called me to chat or anything. I'm suspecting she doesn't want to be friends anymore but doesn't want to say it to me directly. I know if I call her she'll either be busy or out somewhere with her other friends. I duno I just feel heart broken and upset about the whole thing cry . It would kinda be impossible to talk to her in person cause she lives an hour away from me and you know how much gas can cost these days.
I've tried ignoring her and the problem but I just can't anymore. If its possible could some suggestions be of some help? Thanks a bunch.
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 3:58 am
The same thing happened to me when I was 12. I think that you should confront your friend about it, to see where you stand. I didn't confront mine... I haven't had any contact with her for over two years now. We didn't break the friendship, it just... faded into non-existance. I'm still hurting from it.
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 9:00 pm
I agree with Shadowed. The best thing would do is to confront her about it. Do it at a time when you know you can keep her attention, that way she won't have any other things going through her head when you talk to her. I wouldn't do it in a full-force manner though, do it as if you were having a regular conversation.
I've had a lot of experience with this kind of thing and that method seems to work best. ^^
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Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 9:04 pm
You're just going to have to talk to her about it. If she continues to avoid you, she's not the kind of friend you need around.
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Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 3:58 pm
It's better to get it out in the open and off your chest, get some closure, like the others have said before me. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 12:56 pm
I'd agree with the rest, but I'm really not one to talk. I haven't spoken to my ex-best friend in 2 years either. I would confront her if I though it would end well, but she hits when she's upset and she gets upset at everything. 2 years ago I was the only person we knew still speaking to her and I'd just decided I'd had it. Helps that she's in Uni.
EDIT: Uh, your name isn't Dana, is it? sweatdrop
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