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 Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 9:56 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 10:21 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 4:05 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 7:17 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 9:25 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 9:50 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 12:51 am
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What you have to take into consideration is what each man can bring to the table for you. Since you have a child, your relationship is automatically not just about you but your son as well. The man you choose is going to be in your son's life and will be an influence (though if he's really young it might not matter too much right now in that sense, but the man will still be in his life). So while the man needs to absolutely make you happy, he also has to do the same for your son. Like cool4 suggested, you more than likely just need to look for things you value in each man. If the father of your son has given you reasons not to stay, and the other man has had his moments as well, then you need to consider why you feel that way. If you have reasons not to stay that cannot be worked out, then you probably shouldn't. You also need to consider that if this other man has had his moments already, then there might be more of them.
Of course, there is always the option that neither of them are good for you. Just because they're in your life and offering to be by your side does not mean you have to choose one of them. You don't HAVE to be with either of them. Really think about the reasons why you want to be with one of them. If it's because you're lonely or you don't want to be alone, or you feel you need to be with the father because of your son, then those are not good reasons. It's better to be "alone" than to just choose someone because they're there. But if that's not the case, then just really consider what you have with each man and see which you meld with better, as well as if either will definitely be there for your son. While the father already has obligation, the other man needs to be willing to step up as well if he's going to be with you. Good luck. |
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 7:37 am
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