Didn't know if I should put this in life issues or boys, but I decided to post it here. Hope it wasn't a bad idea.
Anyway I've been having problems for the past week or so and its just getting worst.
I'm not sure where to start... OK basically I met this guy for the sake of this I'll call him person X. Ive had a crush on him for the past 2 months and have known him for a pretty long period of time. So anyway one day he texted me while I was hanging out with my friend (person Y) and being nosey she intruded on our conversation. And bam she crushed on him to. This at first didn't bother me to much until she started to become more and more infatuated with him.
Now allow me to introduce us both. First off there is me- I am naturally a chill person until my jealous side is brought out. I can be... well competitive with this sort of thing. I also don't exactly have the greatest self esteem either/
On the other hand there is person Y; when she crushes on somebody she crushes hard, also has a low self esteem.
Now this guy is a very nice guy who likes to cheer people up, part of this involves making us both feel good.
Anyway one day she figured out I don't like it at all that she likes him and she flipped out on me. I quote her
So now I'm the bad guy, I mean I get why she's upset and everything don't get me wrong. But still I hate this situation so much because nobody can win. Either one of us gets burned in the end or both of us. There is just no winning in this because I don't like seeing my friend hurt.
What the heck should I do? This past week hasn't been good at all to my mental health.
Just give it to me straight what you think ....
Aslo I feel as if I'm forgetting important details...
ps- apologies on my grammar, typos and spelling errors
Anyway I've been having problems for the past week or so and its just getting worst.
I'm not sure where to start... OK basically I met this guy for the sake of this I'll call him person X. Ive had a crush on him for the past 2 months and have known him for a pretty long period of time. So anyway one day he texted me while I was hanging out with my friend (person Y) and being nosey she intruded on our conversation. And bam she crushed on him to. This at first didn't bother me to much until she started to become more and more infatuated with him.
Now allow me to introduce us both. First off there is me- I am naturally a chill person until my jealous side is brought out. I can be... well competitive with this sort of thing. I also don't exactly have the greatest self esteem either/
On the other hand there is person Y; when she crushes on somebody she crushes hard, also has a low self esteem.
Now this guy is a very nice guy who likes to cheer people up, part of this involves making us both feel good.
Anyway one day she figured out I don't like it at all that she likes him and she flipped out on me. I quote her
Quote:
"I already have the worst possible self esteem And he makes me feel better about myself And all ur doin and makin me feel like crap Especially when u talk about wanting to know if he really likes u! He does! I get it! Im no competition fur u But jesus ******** christ can am i allowed a lil self esteem!!?? Ig not bc u want to have him fur urself od it hurts when ur "bestie" is jealous and makes feel like crap"
So now I'm the bad guy, I mean I get why she's upset and everything don't get me wrong. But still I hate this situation so much because nobody can win. Either one of us gets burned in the end or both of us. There is just no winning in this because I don't like seeing my friend hurt.
What the heck should I do? This past week hasn't been good at all to my mental health.
Just give it to me straight what you think ....
Aslo I feel as if I'm forgetting important details...
ps- apologies on my grammar, typos and spelling errors
