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 Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 4:59 pm
Do you think it is important to keep your virginity till you get married?
I don't have a religion, but it is a value of mine to keep my virginity till I get married...
I just dislike people that like to have sex just because they like it and like to feel
attracted to the opposite sex. Some guys would try to date girls just to sleep with them too. So, I felt that keeping my virginity till marriage is right for me.
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 5:04 pm
In rare instances, teenage sex could actually be accepted. Only when said parents aren't just a teenage fling and get pregnant at 16. The parents must be able to care for their child and also juggle the rest of high school or college somehow. This is why I said rare. I haven't met a stable teenage parent couple yet so I have yet to see one and this is also again why I say rare. Yes, it would be nice if you could wait until marriage, but if you can keep such a child, I don't believe that you're obligated. BUT it is important because you have no idea if that relationship will be stable until marriage at all. I'm certainly going to wait until I get married, but you never know.. you could always slip in the heat of the moment. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 8:15 pm
Haunting Paranoia In rare instances, teenage sex could actually be accepted. Only when said parents aren't just a teenage fling and get pregnant at 16. The parents must be able to care for their child and also juggle the rest of high school or college somehow. This is why I said rare. I haven't met a stable teenage parent couple yet so I have yet to see one and this is also again why I say rare. Yes, it would be nice if you could wait until marriage, but if you can keep such a child, I don't believe that you're obligated. BUT it is important because you have no idea if that relationship will be stable until marriage at all. I'm certainly going to wait until I get married, but you never know.. you could always slip in the heat of the moment. sweatdrop ''heat of the moment'' is something I never experienced XD, because I never had a bf... sweatdrop It's kind of easy for me to not lose my virginity
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 9:09 pm
 I used to say that I would wait for marriage/someone I truly love and I stuck by it all the way through high school. And then I met my Matt and we begun to date.
We had both been waiting for each other and we didn't know it. When it's with the right person, it doesn't matter if you are married or not.
The joy of it is that I now have a beautiful old ring that needs repairing first , but it represents the fact that marriage will happen in the future. 
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 10:46 pm
I don't want to lose it until then if I can help it, but I also have anxiety and major trust issues with people so the thought of having sex and then the person leaving after something that personal makes me all squirmy inside. honestly though as long as a person is being safe about it, I see no harm in loosing it willingly whenever the person wants to. it's their body and virginity, I don't think I have the right to police when they do it
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 11:28 pm
You know, I kind of envy you girls who still are virgins... yeah, I'm 22, but I never really had a say in who got mine and when.
My life might not have been much different, but it could have saved me a few years of therapy...
That being said, I honestly believe that the more you know about sex - both the emotional implications and the actual mechanics of it - the less likely you are to have sex before you're psychologically ready for it.
Also, if you're getting married just to have sex (whether because of legalities or to do it without being judged for it), you are definitely not ready for either activity.
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Posted: Fri May 03, 2013 2:44 am
Personally, I am still a virgin, I have decided to keep it, well until I feel I am ready to have sex, and that I love the person I do it with.
I dont believe in getting married purely so you can have sex, because you shouldn't marry someone for sex, just how you shouldn't be in a relationship just for sex..
I also believe that you are the only person who can decide when you're ready to have sex. There is the perfect time and person for each and every person, and only you can decide that.
Heck, I'm 17 and I haven't even had my first kiss yet, I just dont feel ready for it..
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Posted: Thu May 09, 2013 2:59 pm
I don't think it's important. I never did.
You just decide when you're ready. A ring and a paper isn't going to make the act any more different than you wish to make it. It's all up to you how you go through with it. If marriage make it feel more special, then more power to those who feel that way, but it's not necessary to be married to feel good about having sex. I've never felt any animosity toward people who just plain liked having sex. I like having sex, just because it's with my fiance and not someone I'm casually dating, a hook-up, or a friend-with-benefits doesn't mean I should feel any better than another person. They get what they want, they enjoy it, end of. It's the same for me, just under a different setting, just like being married would be, a different setting. It's all just what you're ready for, what you want, what you're comfortable with, and you make sure to be safe and sure of yourself and the ramifications of the act. The dynamics or "status" of a relationship doesn't change that, at least not in my eyes.
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Posted: Thu Jun 13, 2013 10:58 am
It's more important to know what you want and stick to it. It's still sex no matter when or how you do it. For me, I just have no interest in it whatsoever and I have a rather large phobia to sexual content. So long as no one insists on letting me hear all the details, I don't care what they do.
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Posted: Tue Jun 25, 2013 11:30 am
i think you should keep it ._. cause you cant trust anyone!
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Posted: Tue Jun 25, 2013 1:40 pm
I don't really think it's that important, but that's just my personal view. It depends on the person, and they should decide for themselves when they're "ready".
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Posted: Wed Jul 03, 2013 10:24 am
I think a person should "loose there virginity" whenever they feel its right and they know of all the consequences (I cant think of a better word than consequence) that can happen such as pregnancy, STD'S etc. I personally don’t believe anyone should feel pressured to have sex because a religion, preacher, parent, partner tells them to. Just because someone is married doesn't necessary mean they're ready to have sex.
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Posted: Wed Jul 03, 2013 11:20 am
Beth Phoenix23 I think a person should "loose there virginity" whenever they feel its right and they know of all the consequences (I cant think of a better word than consequence) that can happen such as pregnancy, STD'S etc. I personally don’t believe anyone should feel pressured to have sex because a religion, preacher, parent, partner tells them to. Just because someone is married doesn't necessary mean they're ready to have sex. I remember that someone said 2 people need to love each other and that's enough. Or, ''needs to feel a connection to the other person''... Theses opinions were from men... xd They didnt put the emphasis on ''the consequences'' such as pregnancy etc.
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Posted: Tue May 23, 2017 4:10 pm
Beth Phoenix23 I think a person should "loose there virginity" whenever they feel its right and they know of all the consequences (I cant think of a better word than consequence) that can happen such as pregnancy, STD'S etc. I personally don’t believe anyone should feel pressured to have sex because a religion, preacher, parent, partner tells them to. Just because someone is married doesn't necessary mean they're ready to have sex. Your so right about this.
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