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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 7:17 am
I've been dating this guy who I've been crushing over for years and I've always thought of him as my dream guy... But now that we're actually dating, something weird keeps happening.
Whenever we get a bit 'excited' from kissing, we'll have a little bit of fun. He'll quite happily 'sort me out', but then as soon as I pull down his pants, he doesn't have a boner. Obviously this ruins the mood straight away. It's happened twice already, so yesterday I decided to confront him about it.
He said that I do give him a boner, but he's 'd**k shy'. He said it means that until I actually see his p***s, he'll just get all shy and lose his boner. I was astonished, I mean I've never heard of anything so bizarre.
Anyway, I wanted to know if any of you have ever had this problem or have heard of such a thing? If so, any suggestions? My friend said I should just take a sneak peak so he'll stop being like this, but I'm not too sure if I'm even that comfortable yet.
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 7:09 pm
aah... I can't help you with this...
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 7:16 pm
eep. if you're not ready to see his d**k, then, why would you do it anyway? like, leave him alone for now. take things slow. wait?
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Posted: Tue Apr 02, 2013 9:59 pm
❥Sounds like he just needs some attention down there, which is normal for someone to remain fully erect.
❥I suppose, to put it into something accessible us girls can more readily observe on ourselves, are nipples--they can become erect with direct stimulation, but they can also become soft without that stimulation. It doesn't necessarily mean we're any less aroused or without a strong desire to be aroused. The same goes for the clitoris and the p***s. If you have been worried, you can rest knowing that it is completely normal.
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Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 4:20 am
A000045 ❥Sounds like he just needs some attention down there, which is normal for someone to remain fully erect.❥I suppose, to put it into something accessible us girls can more readily observe on ourselves, are nipples--they can become erect with direct stimulation, but they can also become soft without that stimulation. It doesn't necessarily mean we're any less aroused or without a strong desire to be aroused. The same goes for the clitoris and the p***s. If you have been worried, you can rest knowing that it is completely normal. Do you think he might be shy of the size and as soon as I get too close, he freaks out and loses the 'mood'? emotion_0A0
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Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 5:06 am
Mutual masturbation from opposite ends of the bed? That way you two could shake the anxiety of seeing it and not crowd the poor guy and his bonerdini.
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Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 4:32 pm
o0Roxy0o Do you think he might be shy of the size and as soon as I get too close, he freaks out and loses the 'mood'? emotion_0A0
❥I doubt that is the main issue, since he has explained that he gets aroused when his p***s is stimulated by you. Is he as concerned about it as you are? Has he actually said the mood is broken, or do you assume it is? Did he think it was an issue before you brought it up? Causing him to feel anxiety about his body and performance won't help the situation.❥It sounds like he just needs stimulation, which is normal. Sometimes the body can't maintain an erection for various reasons, but his reason sounds like he just isn't being stimulated while focusing on giving you pleasure. If you want him to have an erection, be supportive and give him attention down there.
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