That awkward moment when...

[mimiru_002]

my ex texts me saying that his stepdad died last night...

I mean, what am I supposed to say or do or feel? D:
I feel bad that someone I knew died
and he was a guy that had a lot of drug and sex problems when he was younger
but he turned around and met my ex's mom
and he ended up a better man
I have some respect for him
but...
it's kinda awkward because we aren't together anymore
a series of nasty events
it wasn't a mutual breakup...

so I guess that's why I feel kinda confused :c

oh well, life will move along I guess  

[Miss_XxAriaxX]

mimiru_002

my ex texts me saying that his stepdad died last night...

I mean, what am I supposed to say or do or feel? D:
I feel bad that someone I knew died
and he was a guy that had a lot of drug and sex problems when he was younger
but he turned around and met my ex's mom
and he ended up a better man
I have some respect for him
but...
it's kinda awkward because we aren't together anymore
a series of nasty events
it wasn't a mutual breakup...

so I guess that's why I feel kinda confused :c

oh well, life will move along I guess

Did you keep it touch with your ex since you broke up ?

I guess not right?

Definitely awkward !! My friend is also getting message from her ex, but she ignores it, because they are not staying as friends. Their relationship is over and it was clear in my friend's mind that she doesn't want to keep in touch with him (one big reason, after they broke up, he asked her if she could be his f* friend, my friend was extremely angry obviously).  

[MiracleRayray2]

i would of felt the same way...  

[mimiru_002]

XxAriaxX

mimiru_002

my ex texts me saying that his stepdad died last night...

I mean, what am I supposed to say or do or feel? D:
I feel bad that someone I knew died
and he was a guy that had a lot of drug and sex problems when he was younger
but he turned around and met my ex's mom
and he ended up a better man
I have some respect for him
but...
it's kinda awkward because we aren't together anymore
a series of nasty events
it wasn't a mutual breakup...

so I guess that's why I feel kinda confused :c

oh well, life will move along I guess

Did you keep it touch with your ex since you broke up ?

I guess not right?

Definitely awkward !! My friend is also getting message from her ex, but she ignores it, because they are not staying as friends. Their relationship is over and it was clear in my friend's mind that she doesn't want to keep in touch with him (one big reason, after they broke up, he asked her if she could be his f* friend, my friend was extremely angry obviously).

well, yeah kinda
but not really

it's just he broke up with me in february because he couldn't deal with my s**t anymore
we were in a relationship for 5 year
and it was my first REAL relationship
so I was like ok, he definately made up his mind
and then the next week, he wanted to get back together
and I said no because I don't wanna be one of those flip flop couples
and he already made his decision
plus he drives me crazy with his guilt trips
so yeah

I moved on just fine and have a new boyfriend now
long distance though
and he had a fling with one girl
didn't work out because she was going too fast for him
the poor girl just wanted to kiss him...

and now he is with the ex before me
it's just crazy

we TRIED being friends and all
but I can't take it
he just drives me insane
and so he is like your friend's ex
texting me randomly
wanting to hang out with friends
that was ok until he got back with his ex
my god, I can't stand her
so now he wants to invite her to ALL of our friend's gatherings
I just rage quit  

[mimiru_002]

MiracleRayray2

i would of felt the same way...

yup, tell me about it D:
for now, I'm just forgetting about it  

[MiracleRayray2]

mimiru_002

MiracleRayray2

i would of felt the same way...

yup, tell me about it D:
for now, I'm just forgetting about it

Good for you!  

[mimiru_002]

MiracleRayray2

mimiru_002

MiracleRayray2

i would of felt the same way...

yup, tell me about it D:
for now, I'm just forgetting about it

Good for you!

mhm :3  

[getmeoffthishellsite]

That is pretty awkward :c
It's good that you're still moving ahead though. Can't let anything get you down!

 

[Mord Alushar]

That is pretty awkward but be kinda sympathetic with out getting to involved if that makes any sense. It lets your ex know that you feel bad for what happened to his family but it also shows that you'd still like to maintain a healthy distance.  

[L4uren]

be kind about it! but have your guard up too.
i don't know how the break up went , or what kind
of person he is, but since you were the one
who wouldn't take him back, he might be using his stepdad's death as a way for you
to feel bad for him and possibly start " talking " to him again.

or i could have it totally wrong.
either way that sucks.  

[mimiru_002]

Captain Silas Manner

That is pretty awkward :c
It's good that you're still moving ahead though. Can't let anything get you down!

mhm :c
yay~
thanks :3
I appreciate your input!  

[mimiru_002]

Mord Alushar

That is pretty awkward but be kinda sympathetic with out getting to involved if that makes any sense. It lets your ex know that you feel bad for what happened to his family but it also shows that you'd still like to maintain a healthy distance.

mhm
yeah, I just texted back the standard apology
"I'm sorry for your loss. Take care of your mom"
that's all ;P
I'm surprised he didn't text back with more sob
but I guess he is still coping
yeah, I just wanted to be respectful of the situation
regardless of our issues
thanks for your input :3  

[mimiru_002]

L4uren

be kind about it! but have your guard up too.
i don't know how the break up went , or what kind
of person he is, but since you were the one
who wouldn't take him back, he might be using his stepdad's death as a way for you
to feel bad for him and possibly start " talking " to him again.

or i could have it totally wrong.
either way that sucks.

I was :3
I just did a standard apology
"I'm sorry for your loss. Take care of your mom"
eh, it was just sudden breakup and didn't wanna put up with his crap either
I just don't like how he just called it off over the phone
before I was gonna go to bed
and a couple weeks before my birthday :c
I thought I deserved a little more respect than that
like a face to face conversation
but whatever
it's done and gone
and he is a nice person in general, kinda stubborn and naive
one of those weird, happy go lucky people

and yeah, I was afraid that he would use that as some kind of excuse :c
so I'm being careful about what I say and the distance stuff
and I don't think he is gonna try to "win me back"
because he got back with the ex before me
I'm pretty sure he is busy with her ;P
she is a psychopath
idk how those two will end up...  

[Mord Alushar]

mimiru_002

Mord Alushar

That is pretty awkward but be kinda sympathetic with out getting to involved if that makes any sense. It lets your ex know that you feel bad for what happened to his family but it also shows that you'd still like to maintain a healthy distance.

mhm
yeah, I just texted back the standard apology
"I'm sorry for your loss. Take care of your mom"
that's all ;P
I'm surprised he didn't text back with more sob
but I guess he is still coping
yeah, I just wanted to be respectful of the situation
regardless of our issues
thanks for your input :3

Not a problem <3