:'(

[Lashuri Chan]

Okay so I am reaching a breaking point right now. I hung out with my niece today and again she was telling me things my sister was saying to her about me and one thing in particular was that she told our niece the reason I don't get hours is because of my odor and that just hurt like no other.

I mean when my parents have talked to me about finding a new job and the job I had they always said it could be my attitude and when I talked to my managers they said it was because I simply was not trained to do other things

I have already been questioning how to go about confronting her just because of the fact that we only talked like twice in the past two months and she comes home and doesn't talk to me and calls me hateful to our dog not my face.

I don't feel comfortable approaching her and so I thought of talking to our mom so she could be like a mediator but when I think about it sounds so damn stupid because we are both in our twenties and should be able to handle problems like adults but she wants to be a little b***h and talk s**t about me and just. I've just had it and I need to know how to go about this.

 

[Isis Sister Of Osiris]

Sweetheart, if you had a body odor problem your mother would tell you. Mothers don't pretend there isn;t a problem if they think it's harming you in any way.

It's your sister who's doing this, spreading BS and making sure your gossipy niece runs to you with the stories to make sure you feel hurt.

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[Lashuri Chan]

Thanks and I know that, but still I don't know how to bring it out in the open so she knows that her telling our niece isn't all hush, hush and I feel like I do want my parents to know about this because I am sick of the tension in the house.

 

[Em is asylum]

I wouldn't worry too much about it, but if ti makes you feel better just leave a note, email, or text to your sister talking to her about it.  

[Lashuri Chan]

Chances are great I would text her when she goes away to college again. >_<

 

[Jinxed Tarot Card]

I say just walk straight up to her tell her what you think, if she refuses to talk about it and still acts childish, you can either bring your mom into it to help or ignore her and live your life without her. Be civil with when you need to be, but it ain't worth stressing yourself over.

Good luck with finding a new job and remember, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words are for trifling hoes who can't throw a punch can't hurt me."  

[Lashuri Chan]

Jinxed Tarot Card

I say just walk straight up to her tell her what you think, if she refuses to talk about it and still acts childish, you can either bring your mom into it to help or ignore her and live your life without her. Be civil with when you need to be, but it ain't worth stressing yourself over.

Good luck with finding a new job and remember, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words are for trifling hoes who can't throw a punch can't hurt me."

Hmmm well considering I am still working on getting into college and finding a job, I guess I can let this slide.....again, but just in the meantime! And when she finally decides to start talking to me again I'll bring it up. I mean this compared to what I need to do this is petty and doesn't require my stress right now.

Thanks!

And I love that last line! So true! 4laugh