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 Posted: Sun May 20, 2012 10:42 pm
So there's this boy who I kinda have been having a thing with.
Holding hands, lots of cuddling. Cute, innocent stuff.
He's had a lot of girlfriends before and has just come from a really bad relationship. I've known him since February, but we only started hanging out a couple weeks ago. He said once he was interested in me.
Well, 4 days ago he stopped responding to any of my text messages out of the blue.
My friend today asked him if he like me. He said he's on the fence about it.
Tomorrow I want to confront him about it.
Do you guys have any tips for how to do this?
I still really like him. And I don't want things to end. But this is confusing me so much, I want answers and maybe ending things is best right now?
Please help. :'(
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Posted: Sun May 20, 2012 11:53 pm
I would walk away before things get anymore serious. ( luckily it hasn't already )
He doesn't really sound like he's putting much effort into it anyways.
& if he does like you, let him pursue you.. not the other way around.
Only saying this to keep you from potentially getting hurt.
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Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 11:00 am
Lady Kira X I would walk away before things get anymore serious. ( luckily it hasn't already )
He doesn't really sound like he's putting much effort into it anyways.
& if he does like you, let him pursue you.. not the other way around.
Only saying this to keep you from potentially getting hurt.
i agree with her. ^ let him come after you. other than that, pretend you dont really care.
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Posted: Sun May 27, 2012 11:05 pm
Thanks guys. heart
You were right.
So what happened in the end, was I called him up and had a big heart to heart. The result was we decided to just be friends for a lot of reasons. His reasons for not wanting a relationship were valid, but he was still a jerk for ignoring me like he did. :/
We hung out, which ended up in a night of us cuddled up under the covers while saying "by the way, we are just friends riighhttttt??" Neither of us were over eachother and we weren't just friends.
Then we didn't hang for a while, yesterday I texted him a couple times cause I was having a rough day, apparently he was too. I called him later to talk, he said that I had annoyed him by texting him so much and he's now over me. He suggested I get over him too and said we're still friends.
Sooooooo, I've realized he's a jerk and has never really treated me like he should. And for that, I really am over him.
I should have just listened to you guys at the start and walked away.
Because although he's one of the most fun people I know and I LOVE to hang around with him, he is rediculously far from boyfriend material and I'm not interested in that!
Thanks girls. ♥
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