Situation Update

[PSM Guild Mule]

Link too old thread with the starting drama


Anyway...

I haven't broke up with my boyfriend...
Turns out he went to my parents house when I was staying the night over at my friends house.
He was talking to my dad and my dad flat out told him that he ******** up and that what he did was wrong.
My dad was telling me that my boyfriend was almost in tears and that he looked like hell.
Well I told him that if he wanted to talk that he should get his a** over to my friends house cause I had a lot of s**t to say.

When he got there i just went on a huge rant and I told him how he ******** up and how I felt, and what I thought that he did. XD
It was awesome cause I really busted his balls.

Uhg, it wasn't pretty...
I told him that I kissed my ex while on the break, I did for real.
I was so sure that my boyfriend cheated on me and I was really hurt, I mean he moved that b***h up into our house...
What was I suppose to think?
My ex was there and he made me feel better.
And I'm not gonna lie, we still have some pretty stron feelings for each other.
We dated almost five years ago and the feelings never died...

Moving on...
So my boyfriend and I are trying to work this whole mess out...
Hes been really apologetic and has been treating me like a princess.
He is buying me tons of crap and is trying to take me to nice places...
But even though he says he didn't cheat I still cant shake the thought of him picking her over me...
He knew that it bothered me to have her over constantly he ******** knew but did nothing...
I don't know if I can fully fogive him for this...
But I feel like a b***h if I leave...
Right now he just feels more like a best friend...
I dunno...

And with that other woman...
I told her hubby what she was up too, she wasted all of his money on bullshit instead of paying bills and he almost lost his car and his stuff in storage because of her.
She also bought a ton of stuff for my boyfriend like a new dishwaswer and she bought his way through some amusement park along with his brother and his brothers girlfriend.
Then while her being preggo she still road all of the roller coasters and stuff which had warnings saying do not ride if you are expecting.
Well needless to say they are getting diviorced and she is blaming me for everything.
Apparently I turned everyone against her and I ruined her marraige, no I didn't i just told her hubby the truth and he needed to know.
Well ******** she is coming after me like on Facebook she is saying mean things and she keeps texting me and stuff.
She got hauled off to the loony bin today though...
So hopefully they will keep here there for awhile.

So....

Anyone got any advice for me?
Cause I'm confused...

 

[loonaboots]

Well, you probably shouldn't take my advice, but maybe just try and trust him for the time being. And maybe try and trust him a bit more when he shows that you can trust him, maybe? :/
Also, the loony bin..? What?  

[Moxcella]

Well honestly,i think you should ask for a break,if you want that is.
He put that stupid girl before you,and now she's harassing you is he doing anything about it or saying anything?
You can't buy trust or forgiveness,if you need some time over this then that's fine and he should understand

 

[L4uren]

maybe he should just be a "best friend" right now. you two sound like you need a break from being a couple, and just some time to regain trust.

block the annoying homewrecker on facebook. she got what she deserved and you didn't do anything wrong.

3nodding

 

[PSM Guild Mule]

That_Green_Lady_13

Well, you probably shouldn't take my advice, but maybe just try and trust him for the time being. And maybe try and trust him a bit more when he shows that you can trust him, maybe? :/
Also, the loony bin..? What?

I dunno, I'm just hurt...
He hurt me really bad...
And the loony bin, the other woman got all crazy on everyone and statred cutting herself, well more like scratching herself but still...
So we got tired of her, even her in-laws got tired of her so we had her sent to the psych ward for evaluation. XD  

[PSM Guild Mule]

Moxcella

Well honestly,i think you should ask for a break,if you want that is.
He put that stupid girl before you,and now she's harassing you is he doing anything about it or saying anything?
You can't buy trust or forgiveness,if you need some time over this then that's fine and he should understand

We are on a break, well I told him that I wanted one since I was going out of town this week to babysit my nephews.
I wanted to try to get my head clear.
But he keeps being clingy and he wants to hang out.
And I told him what the homewrecker said and we both went over to where she was staying he was going to chew her a** out for talking to me that way.
She wasn't there though...
but he did tell her in-laws that if she spoke to me again charges would be pressed against her.
Uhg...
I just don't know...
The homewrecker was telling me that my boyfriends family hated me and so did most of his friends...
I'm not sure what to beleive I know that his family isn't fond of me, especially his brother.
Jusr idk...  

[PSM Guild Mule]

Aulette

maybe he should just be a "best friend" right now. you two sound like you need a break from being a couple, and just some time to regain trust.

block the annoying homewrecker on facebook. she got what she deserved and you didn't do anything wrong.

3nodding

If I block her then I cant stay one step ahead.
I like to see whats shes posting about me and if she sends me another mean message then I wanna get her locked up. XD
I hate that b***h.XD
I do not talk to her though, I don't even respond to her messages.
And with doing that to him...
He would take it so hard and I don't want to hurt him even though he hurt me...
He is an alright guy, just he's dumb as hell sometimes.
But with all the drama that keeps getting stirred up I don't know what to do.
I hate his family, his friends suck, and I'm tired of being ******** with. D:  

[L4uren]

Subliminal Aftermath

If I block her then I cant stay one step ahead.
I like to see whats shes posting about me and if she sends me another mean message then I wanna get her locked up. XD
I hate that b***h.XD
I do not talk to her though, I don't even respond to her messages.
And with doing that to him...
He would take it so hard and I don't want to hurt him even though he hurt me...
He is an alright guy, just he's dumb as hell sometimes.
But with all the drama that keeps getting stirred up I don't know what to do.
I hate his family, his friends suck, and I'm tired of being ******** with. D:

lol, yeah, I know what you mean xD this girl I
got in a fight with two years ago is still an annoying
b***h, but I just can't block her on Facebook because
I love seeing what all annoying things she posts xD

and, he might need to be hurt. i've read before that
a lot of times people who do bad things once will
do them again if they see that they get off scot-free.
I'm not saying he'll cheat on you again, but he
might realize that you didn't really do anything to him
last time and do something equally as stupid...
I don't know. it's really up to you 3nodding

 

[PSM Guild Mule]

Aulette

Subliminal Aftermath

If I block her then I cant stay one step ahead.
I like to see whats shes posting about me and if she sends me another mean message then I wanna get her locked up. XD
I hate that b***h.XD
I do not talk to her though, I don't even respond to her messages.
And with doing that to him...
He would take it so hard and I don't want to hurt him even though he hurt me...
He is an alright guy, just he's dumb as hell sometimes.
But with all the drama that keeps getting stirred up I don't know what to do.
I hate his family, his friends suck, and I'm tired of being ******** with. D:

lol, yeah, I know what you mean xD this girl I
got in a fight with two years ago is still an annoying
b***h, but I just can't block her on Facebook because
I love seeing what all annoying things she posts xD

and, he might need to be hurt. i've read before that
a lot of times people who do bad things once will
do them again if they see that they get off scot-free.
I'm not saying he'll cheat on you again, but he
might realize that you didn't really do anything to him
last time and do something equally as stupid...
I don't know. it's really up to you 3nodding

He keeps telling me that he didn't cheat and well I don't know what to beleive.
I never caught them in the act but the evidence was there.
But I dunno...
He keeps trying so hard to make it up to me but it just doesn't feel the same.  

[L4uren]

Subliminal Aftermath

He keeps telling me that he didn't cheat and well I don't know what to beleive.
I never caught them in the act but the evidence was there.
But I dunno...
He keeps trying so hard to make it up to me but it just doesn't feel the same.

maybe he never literally cheated,
maybe he got some kind of crush {ohh that sounds so fourth grade}
or liking to her and they just spent more time than was
appropriate together.
it's still not a good thing but it's not as bad.

 

[PSM Guild Mule]

Aulette

Subliminal Aftermath

He keeps telling me that he didn't cheat and well I don't know what to beleive.
I never caught them in the act but the evidence was there.
But I dunno...
He keeps trying so hard to make it up to me but it just doesn't feel the same.

maybe he never literally cheated,
maybe he got some kind of crush {ohh that sounds so fourth grade}
or liking to her and they just spent more time than was
appropriate together.
it's still not a good thing but it's not as bad.

LOL CRUSH
That does sound so fourth grade XD
But yeah I think that might be what was going on...
I know that I'm pretty strong willed and I don't take s**t from anyone, her on the other hand...
she is a weak whiny b***h who cant take care of herself.
Guys love being a caretaker, they eat that s**t up. XD
It makes them feel like they are needed and it's a huge ego boost to them.
I think he might have had or still might have a crush on her because she "needed" someone and he was there for her...
I cant really explain it.
But still, I cant help but not feel the same for him...
I did love him but now... I just I feel so hurt and he's still trying so hard to keep me but I'm just I dunno...  

[Moxcella]

Subliminal Aftermath

We are on a break, well I told him that I wanted one since I was going out of town this week to babysit my nephews.
I wanted to try to get my head clear.
But he keeps being clingy and he wants to hang out.
And I told him what the homewrecker said and we both went over to where she was staying he was going to chew her a** out for talking to me that way.
She wasn't there though...
but he did tell her in-laws that if she spoke to me again charges would be pressed against her.
Uhg...
I just don't know...
The homewrecker was telling me that my boyfriends family hated me and so did most of his friends...
I'm not sure what to beleive I know that his family isn't fond of me, especially his brother.
Jusr idk...

Clingy? Eesh. I'm sure you've already told him to leave you alone so you can think? If not you should tell him that,even if you have to be blunt about it.
The homewrecker must be hiding out then. =w= She sounds like a scared weak b***h who can't stand up for herself.
Why would his family and friends hate you? Don't listen to her words,she just trying to make you feel bad and she is trying to play the ' victim ' card.
You sound like you need a vacation D:

 

[PSM Guild Mule]

Moxcella

Subliminal Aftermath

We are on a break, well I told him that I wanted one since I was going out of town this week to babysit my nephews.
I wanted to try to get my head clear.
But he keeps being clingy and he wants to hang out.
And I told him what the homewrecker said and we both went over to where she was staying he was going to chew her a** out for talking to me that way.
She wasn't there though...
but he did tell her in-laws that if she spoke to me again charges would be pressed against her.
Uhg...
I just don't know...
The homewrecker was telling me that my boyfriends family hated me and so did most of his friends...
I'm not sure what to beleive I know that his family isn't fond of me, especially his brother.
Jusr idk...

Clingy? Eesh. I'm sure you've already told him to leave you alone so you can think? If not you should tell him that,even if you have to be blunt about it.
The homewrecker must be hiding out then. =w= She sounds like a scared weak b***h who can't stand up for herself.
Why would his family and friends hate you? Don't listen to her words,she just trying to make you feel bad and she is trying to play the ' victim ' card.
You sound like you need a vacation D:

His family doesn't like me becasue apparently I'm lazy, I like to start drama, and because I wont stand for a man to push me around.
His brother hates me cuz I wouldn't date him in highschool.
XD
the homewrecker is a weak little b***h who needs to go back up north where she belongs.
I'm at my sisters this week, away from my town and stuff...
And I'm uhg... Confused...  

[PSM Guild Mule]

I'm just so confused, I don't want to rage quit on my current boyfriend but he will probably screw up again...
And my ex...
The feelings never died and he is just so...
Intoxicating?
Amazing?
I miss him...
Terribly...
We had a bad break up five years ago but were better now and...
Uhg.
I never got over him...
He never got over me...
Uhg...  

[Moxcella]

Subliminal Aftermath

His family doesn't like me becasue apparently I'm lazy, I like to start drama, and because I wont stand for a man to push me around.
His brother hates me cuz I wouldn't date him in highschool.
XD
the homewrecker is a weak little b***h who needs to go back up north where she belongs.
I'm at my sisters this week, away from my town and stuff...
And I'm uhg... Confused...

Well,you don't seem lazy to me,and i've never seen you start drama online.
Sounds like he has a grudge!
What a ridiculous reason to hate someone because they would never go out with you
She sounds absolutely pathetic.
I'm sorry your feeling confused =/ I don't think you should give up on your current bf
Take as long as you need on your break to get yourself together and calm down over the situation,and then think about how you feel.
Has this happened before? Will it happen again?
& about your ex,don't be on the rebound and why did you guys break up in the first place?