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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 5:56 pm
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I'm fourteen. My father and I have been living with my grandmother for almost 5 years now. The house conditions are fine, we're happy, everything is perfect. My parents are divorced, and although everyone tries to convince me to love my mother because she's she only one I have, I can't help but hate her. She's a horrible person to me. She tells lies about me, she always threatens to hit me (and even to beat me once), and to make my life hell, she's even blown cigarette smoke right in my face telling me to "get the ******** away from her" when I question her about why she's been lying about me on the phone. I simply hate her, nothing can be done to help it.
Now what's going on: Recently, my father and grandmother have been quarreling. They are both kind people, but they're getting tired of living together for irrelevant reasons. My father is looking to move out, and the only houses he can afford are out of my district. Frankly, I'm extremely happy living here with my grandmother. I just don't want to leave, it's so perfect. My dad is planning to move into a certain house, so he packed all his stuff up into boxes. The plan is, he's going to move into it, and come straight to grandma's house after work from 5 pm-8 pm just to play with me, make dinner for me, ect. and then go to his new house each day.
Well today, as soon as my mother came here to my grandmothers house today to drop off my sister for the weekend, she barged into the house and saw my father's empty room (his room is right by the doorway and the door is transparent glass). She flipped out. She started threatening to try and get custody of my because "it's either living with your dad or me, not your grandma and nobody else." Dad told her to just get out. She went back into her car, told my stepdad that my father called my mom a "tramp" (which he never did), and so my stepdad came out and started pushing my dad, literally, threatening to "knock my dad on his a**". After they settled down, my mom and stepdad left and began calling my house nonstop, interrogating me like crazy. She finally stopped a few hours ago. My grandmother says I can live away from my parents at fourteen in Texas, but I don't know if she knows what she's talking about. I don't know.... I cannot live with my mother, but my father can't stay here with me either, please help. I know just moving in with my dad shouldn't be so hard, but I'm really happy here.
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 7:52 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 8:02 pm
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MaiRevengex I'm fourteen. My father and I have been living with my grandmother for almost 5 years now. The house conditions are fine, we're happy, everything is perfect. My parents are divorced, and although everyone tries to convince me to love my mother because she's she only one I have, I can't help but hate her. She's a horrible person to me. She tells lies about me, she always threatens to hit me (and even to beat me once), and to make my life hell, she's even blown cigarette smoke right in my face telling me to "get the ******** away from her" when I question her about why she's been lying about me on the phone. I simply hate her, nothing can be done to help it. Now what's going on: Recently, my father and grandmother have been quarreling. They are both kind people, but they're getting tired of living together for irrelevant reasons. My father is looking to move out, and the only houses he can afford are out of my district. Frankly, I'm extremely happy living here with my grandmother. I just don't want to leave, it's so perfect. My dad is planning to move into a certain house, so he packed all his stuff up into boxes. The plan is, he's going to move into it, and come straight to grandma's house after work from 5 pm-8 pm just to play with me, make dinner for me, ect. and then go to his new house each day. Well today, as soon as my mother came here to my grandmothers house today to drop off my sister for the weekend, she barged into the house and saw my father's empty room (his room is right by the doorway and the door is transparent glass). She flipped out. She started threatening to try and get custody of my because "it's either living with your dad or me, not your grandma and nobody else." Dad told her to just get out. She went back into her car, told my stepdad that my father called my mom a "tramp" (which he never did), and so my stepdad came out and started pushing my dad, literally, threatening to "knock my dad on his a**". After they settled down, my mom and stepdad left and began calling my house nonstop, interrogating me like crazy. She finally stopped a few hours ago. My grandmother says I can live away from my parents at fourteen in Texas, but I don't know if she knows what she's talking about. I don't know.... I cannot live with my mother, but my father can't stay here with me either, please help. I know just moving in with my dad shouldn't be so hard, but I'm really happy here. Moving is never easy, I know. I have had to move several times and have gone to new schools. Although it is hard, I strongly recommend that you live with your dad. It would make things easier on him and you.
As for your mom, I should maybe have your dad get a restraining order on her. Seriously! From what you have described, your dad could take her to court for that. You should not have to be around such a negative influence.AS suggested by Moxcella, call CPS. I have had to call CPS on a family member several times.
I have been through a lot, so if you want some one to talk to, PM me.
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 8:26 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 9:17 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2012 10:35 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 3:13 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 5:08 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 10:34 pm
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