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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 4:17 pm
So, I've been dating my boyfriend, Josh, for almost 2 months now...And I'm completely unhappy. Seriously. I used to be the happiest person ever, but ever since we started going on, I've been getting more depressed. My mom tells me I should wait until after homecoming so I can have a date. But I know he doesn't want to go to homecoming, so that's like making him go just to dump him. And all my friends ******** adore him, which makes things harder. He's such a great guy, they say. And I agree. He is. He's nice, he's funny, he's not the jealous type. But he's also perverted, and while normally I don't mind, he's been making some really perverted comments lately that just bug the ******** s**t out of me, and I've told him to stop, and he says "You know that's what I do. That's why you love me." I don't ******** love him, I never will love him, and I'm starting to not even like him! Also...I'm afraid my friends will give him s**t if we break up, or they'll give me s**t. When he broke up with my friend Brianna, all her friends ******** attacked him, telling him what a d**k he was and all this other stuff, and he told my friend Shaina that he just wanted to swallow a bottle of pills, and the reason he didn't was because "Mori (me) made me realize people care." Well, ********. How do you break up with that? So...what should I do? Break up with him? Or wait until after homecoming?
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 4:31 pm
Break up with him. 1. You don't love him. 2. He makes you miserable. 3. He bugs and annoys you. 4. He didn't stop make those comments when you asked him too.
To Hell with what other people want, it is your life and you can choose who you want to be with. If your friends don't like it that you are going to break up with him then to Hell with their opinion, they can date him. Find a new date to homecoming. =)
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 6:05 pm
Thanks...He's a good guy, he's just not my type. We don't have anything in common, and he's not willing to try to find common interests. All he does is play video games and drink Dr. Pepper. -_- As for finding another date, easier said then done. I'm extremely overweight in a school full of mainly shallow guys, and the few guys that don't mind that I'm fat, are either boring or won't reveal themselves. Though I kind of like this guy in my club named Dustin. He seems sweet. :]
Now to google how to break up with someone! <3
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 6:17 pm
About the homecoming part of this: I don't think that you should need a date to homecoming, by the way. I really don't see what difference it makes, as long as you have fun. In fact, this year, if I go to homecoming I'll probably just go solo or with a group of friends. But, if you really want to go with a date, go ahead, it's your choice, not mine. But I just thought I might make a suggestion just to be safe.~ Hope I helped any, I'm not used to giving advice. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2010 8:11 pm
Broke up with him. Best ******** thing I've ever done. I now see what an a** he really is. He changed his relationship status to single on Facebook, and his best friend (who's one of my friends), Tim, said something like "it finally happened?" and Josh was like, "Yep, break out the vodka, party time!" and then him and all his friends were bad mouthing me on his status, saying either I was a p***y or a b***h for doing it on a text message (We've been together for a MONTH, and we never kissed, held hands, or went on a date. Plus, we got together through a text. I didn't think it was that big of a deal. We weren't serious. At all.), or going "WHOO! PARTY!" and celebrating it. Gee, thanks for making me feel like some stuck up b***h. Jerk.
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2010 8:42 pm
It actually makes him look bad since it shows how much you did not care for him. The guys that I don't have much interest in or annoy me I break up with over the phone. Especially since it's not like I can drive and I don't have the desire to wait until I see them next. No big deal and it is quite funny when it bothers them that much that they find any little thing to bash and pretend they are happy. I mean seriously "Oh lets break out the Vodka because I swear I totally saw this coming and just couldn't do it myself." Yeah sure, buddy.
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