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Posted: Sat Sep 11, 2010 1:39 pm

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Okay, so obviously, so many girls have posted stories about guy problems, and while I like to solve mine on my own, I've been working on this for far too long with no prevail... crying

Okay.
So recently, I broke up with my boyfriend. He's a nice guy, but he put no effort into our relationship after school started. We live half a mile from eachother and he would never meet me, he was incapable to hold a conversation, wiether it be text messages or a phone call, for longer than three texts or three minutes before giving some lame excuse or no excuse at all. He also grew into the habit of saying "I love you" at the end of every text message (we only dated three months) and I made it clear I didn't love him yet.

Now, I didn't want to stop being friends, and when I broke up with him, I made that clear and he kept texting me. But the problem is sends me things like "this song reminds me of us" with a gushy love song or, last night it was "The Man Who Can't be Moved" by the Script. And he's still proclaiming his love for me. I've tried telling him that I don't love him. That I want him to move on. Even resorted to telling him why I can't love. (or rather, won't let myself).

And all he does is counter with a depressing story about his life. He doesn't care or make an effort to do anything after me telling him something I've only told my therapist.

I know he doesn't love me, even if he thinks he does.

Is there any way I can make him see that, without getting into petty fights. I have to live with him until I'm 18, so I don't really want him to hate me.

Help? Advice?

Posted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 2:19 am

Isabelle, I know exactly what are you feeling sad my ex-boyfriend was always like that, with the exception that whenever we broke up he was always heading back to his exs... Even though he always said that I was the woman of his life.

It's all crap.

Boys need girls and vice versa. But, there is a difference between needing and loving. When you love someone, you love, there is no explanation. It's a true feeling and you have absolutely no doubts about that.

What I think that boy is doing is he wants your attention. Probably he can't find any other girl to be, so it's always easer to get back to exs, because there is always a feeling deep down. If he really loved you, he would be a better boyfriend, because he had that chance. He screwed it. Unless you want to give him a second chance, don't let him mess around with your feelings!

Love and best wishes,
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 6:24 pm

i no how u feel, i have to hang out with this guy that always ask me to be his gf but cant sit still for more than 30 seconds, so i cant tell him anything, uh-uh! if u wanna get between these thighs, you gotta learn to listen first! lol jk

Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2010 8:25 pm

thats a tough one. i think he needs to start seeing another girl. maybe try set him up with someone else? otherwise, youve done basically all that you can do. youll just have to let time take its turn and wait for him to realize that you two are just friends.

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