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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 6:36 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 7:23 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 7:26 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 7:27 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 8:18 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 10:47 am
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[~+~]
I believe age wise it should be 16 at least in regard to how you are physically. Most girls aren't anywhere near developed enough to cope well with a baby at a younger age. I know it's supposed to be around 18 when you're fully developed, but at least at 16 you're closer.
I also believe that it's more important that you're mentally ready - mainly with the whole understanding and maturity thing as others have said. I can kinda see pros and cons of being in love with the person for your first time. It would be a good thing because it's sweet and romantic - that's what people see sex as being about, love, right? But if it's your first time - it's never going to be great. You don't know what you're doing and may embarrass yourself. If you don't really know them or see them, at least you save yourself from seeing them again. But it's nice to share the experience (especially if you're both virgins) with the one you love.
I just think it is so so important that when you do it you're at the age where you know what can happen, and the right precautions to take.
My own experience? I had literally just turned 16, my boyfriend and i had been going out for about 4 months i think? And we'd been fighting our hormones for a while, but really did (and still do in fact) love each other. I know it's not long, and i'll be the first to admit that i think those who claim to "love" one another after only a week are stupid, but you can't fight your feelings. Anyway. It wasn't perfect. It was awkward, as neither of us really knew what we were doing. But after it was nice. We felt we really "connected" if you get my drift. x3 I don't regret it at all.
I do think it's all around you as soon as you get into high school these days. But mainly when you're around 15, 16, it feels like everyone is doing it, you're friends are always talking about it, and the media about it is everywhere.
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 5:17 pm
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 5:21 pm
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♭♮♯ Sleeping wonder lies to me, and the lies are sweet. I don't think there should be a specific age; maybe not when you're really young and don't even think about boys yet. If it's on your own terms, and you take all the necessary precautions, if you're ready, well, you're ready. Personally, I find things like "wait 'till you're married," and the "your relationship will go downhill with sex," stuff to be a little old-fashioned. I don't think a relationship should end if sex isn't involved, but they don't usually end if it is, either. I'm fifteen, and a virgin, and I don't plan on losing my virginity any time soon (I have yet to have a first kiss), but really, it will all depend on what I think is best for me. ♩♪♫♬ ♯♮♭
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 5:46 pm
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 5:54 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:24 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:34 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:39 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 18, 2010 2:33 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 18, 2010 3:27 pm
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