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Posted: Mon Jun 14, 2010 10:03 pm
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Don't get so upset X-BILLIONdollarAZZ-X. Your mom knows deep down that she's wrong. (That's why she wanted to take you to have your hair done. 3nodding ) She's trying to protect the weaker of her children. And it's not you. You're strong. She doesn't have to worry about you doing something stupid and winding up in jail. My guess is that the 39 year old meanie still lives at home with her ( am I right?). She hasn't forgotten about your birthday on Wednesday (neither have I). But she does want to make sure you remember others because it shows that she raised at least one caring child that she can brag about. And you may never know to whom she brags about you to, but I guarantee you that she does, perhaps even to your brother who's so angry. It's hard to be compared to a sibling. My dad is like your mom. He blows up and says things he doesn't mean and then expects us to just ignore the fact that he said them. Things that are heard with the ears can hurt for years. The mouth that said them has probably forgotten the whole thing. But if you go back and listen with your heart, you might just find that something entirely different was said. I got to the point with my brother and three sisters that I just gave up on sending them cards and presents because they weren't doing it for me. The world did not come to an end. It's up to you. How does it make you feel? Happy or used? If it's happy, keep doing it. Keep yourself happy. Do not expect "them" to be happy in return. If it's used, tone it down or cut it out. You can't "make" people show you the love and respect you deserve. Love yourself. Respect yourself. It's the best you can do! As for your birthday, try to find some time you and your mom can spend together. She wanted to spend time getting your hair done. How about a movie? Lunch in a sit down restaurant? Not to make you cry, but my mom has passed, so has my mother-in-law, and my step mother is in another state. I've only been able to call my daughter on the phone for her last two birthdays, because she's with my husband in another state. Time spent together is the best gift you could give yourself. 3nodding Finally, take it from the oldest of eight (three have passed) FAMILIES ARE DRAMA!
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 12:26 pm
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Purtie Don't get so upset X-BILLIONdollarAZZ-X. Your mom knows deep down that she's wrong. (That's why she wanted to take you to have your hair done. 3nodding ) She's trying to protect the weaker of her children. And it's not you. You're strong. She doesn't have to worry about you doing something stupid and winding up in jail. My guess is that the 39 year old meanie still lives at home with her ( am I right?). She hasn't forgotten about your birthday on Wednesday (neither have I). But she does want to make sure you remember others because it shows that she raised at least one caring child that she can brag about. And you may never know to whom she brags about you to, but I guarantee you that she does, perhaps even to your brother who's so angry. It's hard to be compared to a sibling. My dad is like your mom. He blows up and says things he doesn't mean and then expects us to just ignore the fact that he said them. Things that are heard with the ears can hurt for years. The mouth that said them has probably forgotten the whole thing. But if you go back and listen with your heart, you might just find that something entirely different was said. I got to the point with my brother and three sisters that I just gave up on sending them cards and presents because they weren't doing it for me. The world did not come to an end. It's up to you. How does it make you feel? Happy or used? If it's happy, keep doing it. Keep yourself happy. Do not expect "them" to be happy in return. If it's used, tone it down or cut it out. You can't "make" people show you the love and respect you deserve. Love yourself. Respect yourself. It's the best you can do! As for your birthday, try to find some time you and your mom can spend together. She wanted to spend time getting your hair done. How about a movie? Lunch in a sit down restaurant? Not to make you cry, but my mom has passed, so has my mother-in-law, and my step mother is in another state. I've only been able to call my daughter on the phone for her last two birthdays, because she's with my husband in another state. Time spent together is the best gift you could give yourself. 3nodding Finally, take it from the oldest of eight (three have passed) FAMILIES ARE DRAMA! WELL HE DONT LIVE AT HOME WIT HER.. HE JUST A SPOILED GROWN AZZ MAN.. THAT IS MEAN 2 EVERYONE IN THE WORLD..HE IN AND OUT OF JAIL AND ALSO MY MOM CAME BY 2 DAY AND DROP A HINT THAT SHE NOT GETTING ME s**t 4 MY BIRTHDAY..QUOTES HER.. SHE SO DAMN RANDOM.. SHE SAYZ OH YEA I JUST REMEMBER I DIDNT GET UR BRUTHA NOTHING 4 HIZ BIRTHDAY.. BUT HIZ BIRTHDAY WAS FEB 9TH..WOW... AND I ALSO KNO THAT WAS A BIG OLE LIE..BECAUSE SHE CAME 2 MY HOUSE AND PICK UP HIS BIRTHDAY GIFT THAT I BOUGHT HIM AND WENT 2 HIZ HOUSE AND GAVE HIM A BIRTHDAY PARTY THAT I WASN ALLOWED 2 GO 2..BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANT ME THERE.. IM JUST SO HURT THAT SHE COULD SIT THERE AND LIE IN MY FACE ..LIKE IM SOME STUPID PERSON OFF THE STREET..
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 2:14 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 3:38 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 4:15 pm
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X-BILLIONdollarAZZ-X Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 4:21 pm
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T_Megami you can choose your friends but you can't choose your relatives. Billion Dollar, you're sad and actually grieving for the mama you imagine in your mind you should have but don't. I did the same thing for many many years. My mama was wrong wrong wrong and still I managed to feel bad. Just for sticking up for myself and wanting to be accepted and loved for who I am. I felt bad. because it's your mom. Ever hear the expression "mother is god to a child"? It's the truth. As a child your mom is everything. And that little child is still alive in all of us. The problem is that mom is far from god. She is very human like all of us and that human hurts us and makes mistakes. I was very angry at my mom for a long time. There are still things that make me angry. But she is my mama and I respect and love her. The thing is that I have need to put some distance between us, so I could grow and learn to mother myself. UR SO RITE..HUGZ ... BUT IT HARDER THEN IT SEEMS 2 JUST LET GO...I DONT CALL HER AND LET WEEKS GO BY AND AS SOON AS I TALK 2 HER.. THE SAME DRAMA AGAIN .. BUT UR SOOOOOO RITE.. I JUST WANT A MOTHER 2 B A LOVING MOTHER 2 ME.. I ALWAYZ C EVERYONE WITH THERE MOM ND WISH THEY WAS MY MOM.. SOMEONE WHO CARES AND RESPECT WAT I THINK INSTEAD ..IM LIVING IN A WORLD.. WHERE EVERYTHING I DO IZ WRONG AND EVERYTHING ANYONE ELSE DO IS RITE 2 HER ..EVEN IF THEY GO 2 JAIL AND KEEP GETTING IN TROUBLE.. ITZ LIKE IM BEING PUNISH 4 DOING RITE IN MY LIFE BY MY MOTHER..HUGZZZ
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 5:01 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 16, 2010 1:37 am
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Posted: Wed Jun 16, 2010 8:58 am
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Posted: Wed Jun 16, 2010 4:30 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 3:56 am
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X-BILLIONdollarAZZ-X Vice Captain
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X-BILLIONdollarAZZ-X Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 3:57 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 3:59 am
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T_Megami Unicorn Lady 2 I sure can relate to the way that you feel. My mom passed away nearly 7 years ago and she went to her grave knowing that the last thing she ever said to me was "why the hell are you calling me?" She was in the hospital and I was calling to check on her. I think that she might have told me that she loved me once or twice in her lifetime...but that's it. I was the youngest of 4 kids. Because there was 12 years between the youngest of the other 3 and me...my mom made it very clear that she didn't really want me. This all served to make me a better person. I had to put all of this behind me and get on with my life. I now make a point of telling the people that I love, just how much I love them, as often as I can. I have made a vow to myself to never be like my mother!! Hang in there and know that you're the bigger person if you can survive this!! Let those of us that had/have unreasonable moms unite!!!! Together we can be strong!! heart OMG Unicornlady, that is hard. I admire you for not letting this make you bitter, but better. Big hugs to you and to Billiondollar. It is so hard to let go. I still got to practice it. I'm a mom now and I too vow never to be like my mom was to me. I'm sure I'll make mistakes but at least I can learn from my mother's mistakes. ur so rite.. hugz
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 4:01 am
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X-BILLIONdollarAZZ-X GailAnne Munchkin I Well, today is your birthday, Billiondollar, and I hope in spite of all the turmoil in your life that you still manage to have a good day! You have lots of friends in spite of your mean brother and what sounds like a rather disfunctional mother, so I'm going to wish you A HAPPY BIRTHDAY, and pray from the bottom of my heart that it is! aw ty .. hugz Okay X-BILLIONdollarAZZ-X, give us the scoop. How was your birthday?
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