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 Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 7:29 am
ok this used to be "do i have the right 2 be mad??" but i changed it. read all the way near the end. plz and thnk u
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:57 am
In my opinion, not really.
I can understand being kind of upset about not giving it more time before asking another girl out- but outside of that it's his decision.
Also; I don't get the whole "you're dating my friend" "you're dating my ex" rage stuff. I really don't.
He's your EX for a reason- which also means you don't have control over his actions, or who he dates...And your friend is a friend, not a pet. They can date whomever they so choose, too. ...oh and if he'd jump that quickly to another relationship, he's probably not worth dating again anyway.
In short; I can't stop you from being mad- but I really don't think you should dwell on it.
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 9:09 am
So we sailed on to the sun,
Till we found the sea of green...
 I agree with Rosalind. I don't think you should be mad, because your the one who broke up with him, right?
After that, he doesn't really have any obligations to do what you want anymore.
If he broke up with you to be with your friend, then I can see why you'd be a little steamed, but other than that, not really.
And her, maybe she likes him too? You can't help who you like and if she likes him, then he asked her out, heck yes she's going to say yes even if he is your ex.
Just... don't bother with it.
If he did get over it that quickly, then you didn't deserve somebody like him and shouldn't want him back either.
Good Luck with everything. C:
And we lived beneath the waves,
In our yellow submarine.
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 9:15 am
I'm in the same situation, and yes, I'm mad.
But we have no right to be.
We don't own them.
What makes me mad is that she's flaunting it around that she's 'so much better of a girlfriend than I ever was'.
Then, feel free to be drop dead pissed off.
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:18 pm
yeah you should be mad at your friend
there are just some things you arent supposed to do and if shes a loyal friend shed at least have the tact to stay away from your ex for a week or to talk to you first. seriously what girl has THAT little restraint? she went out with him the next day??
rolleyes
but remember dear you did break up with him so its not like you own him
dont be mad at him
be mad at her for being such a garbage friend
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:20 pm
Holy crap. You so have a right to be mad. Who's friend says yes to her friends ex?! That (in my opinion) isn't a friend at all.
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:22 pm
thnx guys. i agree with some points that u guys made. ya i shouldnt act this way since I broke up with HIM, so ya. and yes Star x Apple~ thats wat i was getting at. if she was a rl friend she would have waited 2 go out with him. cuz now i miss him alot. i want him bak but i know im 2 late.
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:22 pm
Delicately Handled Holy crap. You so have a right to be mad. Who's friend says yes to her friends ex?! That (in my opinion) isn't a friend at all. a smart lady indeed~ cool
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:24 pm
well do you really want the kinda guy whos just gonna sleaze around with your friends back? im sure you can do way better
and maybe its good that it happened because as much as it hurts...at least now you can see your 'friends' true colors
better now than later i guess ;{
but you really should just be rid of that girl, theyre just poison
wahmbulance
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:28 pm
Star x Apple~ Delicately Handled Holy crap. You so have a right to be mad. Who's friend says yes to her friends ex?! That (in my opinion) isn't a friend at all. a smart lady indeed~ cool a bit smart for my age. and thanks ^.^
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:30 pm
ya good point. i wasnt her friend rlly last yr but 6th grade we were friends so goin from friends 2 not friends then 2 talking and things like that, i knew i had 2 watch her this year. so ya im not gonna rlly talk 2 her this week. and she said quote on quote "i figured since ur the 1 who broke up with him that u wouldnt let this get between us. even in situations like these, friends should support friend's decisions." she also said "but u shouldnt let things like this come become friends." i was txting her this mornin.
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:42 pm
I disagree with a few people here I can see why you're mad and can't say you shouldn't be either. One thing is it brings up other questions obviously. Not to instigate but if we're talking about the next day then why wouldn't you be upset? Thats a bit inconsiderate its not like it was a year later.
We can't say both of them didn't even think about it being somewhat odd. If shes a really good friend for sure then you'll be seeing a bit more of him or having to see a bit less of that friend.
I'd think in that situation (from your friends perspective) you'd have to tell the guy let me think it over. Then tell your friend about it and be straight with it. Or else it just brings more questions and makes things seems a bit fuzzy.
Because they wouldn't of went out so soon if either he just wants to be with someone now. (which is a bad move as well)
Or they already had feelings about each other which isn't a bad thing but just makes things a bit shady.
Don't know how good a friend she was before this.
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 2:00 pm
Rosalind Hawk In my opinion, not really.
I can understand being kind of upset about not giving it more time before asking another girl out- but outside of that it's his decision.
Also; I don't get the whole "you're dating my friend" "you're dating my ex" rage stuff. I really don't.
He's your EX for a reason- which also means you don't have control over his actions, or who he dates...And your friend is a friend, not a pet. They can date whomever they so choose, too. ...oh and if he'd jump that quickly to another relationship, he's probably not worth dating again anyway.
In short; I can't stop you from being mad- but I really don't think you should dwell on it. I agree. I mean you DID break up with him. I think it'd be a little different if he broke up with you.
Some people think friends shouldn't do that, however you can't control either of them. Just try not to be mad because you can't make him take you back and break up with her.
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Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:41 pm
I just don't think thats good reasoning. If she broke up with him the day before thats way to soon. Its like she was waiting in the wings or who even knows his intentions.
I think depending if she was a pretty good friend before all this happened then thats pretty bad.
Hopefully things work out but this is usually the times your friends are better defined.
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 4:54 pm
ok im good he broke up with her today. if u feel like reading the story here it is.
my friend said that she wasnt gonna let it get 2 her about wat happened. so i was like uhhh ok then. but 2day after all that, we were in the teaching theatre ((a big theatre room.)) and when the bell rang i ran all the way up the stairs and 2 my friend s and i was breathing hard, but when i turned the corner i saw him and my friends, ((soulangel777 and some1 else)) were pushing me toward him, so i walked up 2 him and gave our annual high 5 we do all the time, and gave him a hug and we walked down the hallway, when we were about 2 split he told me that this mornin ppl said i had gone off on the other girl, ((but i didnt. i just talked 2 her)) and then he said that they said i still liked him. i was starting 2 walk off saying quietly 'ya that part is true'. he called my name and i turned around and he asked me, "is it true?" i shrugged then nodded then said yes. then he asked as the min bell was ringing ((warning that we need 2 get a move on)) i hugged him and said he had 2 go or hed me tardy. but he asked do u wanna go bak out or wait? i shrugged b/c i honestly didnt know. so he said lets just give it some time. so i agreed. so now we wait and see where time takes us.
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