Sooooo...I'm thinking about taking a plung here...
Well let me just spit it out. I'm thinking about giving my boyfriend a promise ring for Valentine's day.
I know I know...Some people think promise rings are stupid and that engagement rings should be it. But we're not ready for that so I thought a promise ring would be nice...I think it be more then just a "I'm going to marry you some day" ring but more of a "I want a future with you" ring...Does this sound confusing?
Like a I just want to be with you through thick and thin...and I want to love you forever kind of thing.
We've been dating for a little over two years but it feels like so much longer due to we've been attached at the hip the whole time. He lived with me at my mom's house for like several months and then we've been living in our own apartment for a full year this February.
We never seen to have big fights but rather snip and snap at each other. We've talked about getting married, kids, and the whole sha bag before...He means the world to me.
Well I guess the question is...Should I do it? I mean it's odd for a woman to give the man a ring but it's not bad to break tradition. Do you think it's too early and I should wait at 3 years because I know 2 years isn't that long...Also I'm not even sure how he'll take it. I mean he would like to get married but I guess it's a guy thing but the thought kind of scares him. He jokes about not getting married until he's like 51! LOL But it's a promise ring. I don't want to get married right now. I'm in no rush. I rather wait until I'm at least 25. I'm 20, turning 21 in July, by the way and he just turned 22 a few days ago.
So...what do you think?
Well let me just spit it out. I'm thinking about giving my boyfriend a promise ring for Valentine's day.
I know I know...Some people think promise rings are stupid and that engagement rings should be it. But we're not ready for that so I thought a promise ring would be nice...I think it be more then just a "I'm going to marry you some day" ring but more of a "I want a future with you" ring...Does this sound confusing?
Like a I just want to be with you through thick and thin...and I want to love you forever kind of thing.
We've been dating for a little over two years but it feels like so much longer due to we've been attached at the hip the whole time. He lived with me at my mom's house for like several months and then we've been living in our own apartment for a full year this February.
We never seen to have big fights but rather snip and snap at each other. We've talked about getting married, kids, and the whole sha bag before...He means the world to me.
Well I guess the question is...Should I do it? I mean it's odd for a woman to give the man a ring but it's not bad to break tradition. Do you think it's too early and I should wait at 3 years because I know 2 years isn't that long...Also I'm not even sure how he'll take it. I mean he would like to get married but I guess it's a guy thing but the thought kind of scares him. He jokes about not getting married until he's like 51! LOL But it's a promise ring. I don't want to get married right now. I'm in no rush. I rather wait until I'm at least 25. I'm 20, turning 21 in July, by the way and he just turned 22 a few days ago.
So...what do you think?