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 Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 1:14 pm
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--Anorexic beauty queen, with painted eyes so toxic...--
YesYesYes, this is another 'I like a guy' topic, I warn you now.
His name is James, I saw him in the halls a few months ago, and immediately I thought 'Wow.... He's pretty'. I left it at that.
I know it doesn't matter much, but this isn't asking you guys to help me figure out if he likes me. More than likely, he doesn't.
He has a girlfriend.
A friend of mine, who is also friends with James, says that james has been talking about marrying her.
So... Any tips on how to get over him?
I really like him, but I don't think he knows or likes me.
He tipped his hat to me in the hallways this morning, and I just melted.
I added him as a friend on FaceBook, and he added me back, and I know it's nothing special, because he adds everybody, but it still makes me so happy.
--...Flowers painted on her back, centerfold erotic-- |
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Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 8:48 pm
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ahaha, first of all, can i just say that the title of this topic is what made me click on it?
*reads again*
ooh. i used to like a guy named James. he disappointed me greatly.
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i think i shouldn't've said that. sweatdrop
lol. ok, anywaaaaay, moving on... o.O
he's talking about marrying her? how OLD are you guys? (i mean, GIRLS, considering this IS an all girls' guild...)
you want tips on how to get over him?
aagh. i've never been an expert on getting over guys... it just HAPPENS. in my opinion, you can't TRY to get over a guy - in fact, if you TRY, you never WILL.
he tipped his HAT to you? whoaaaz. i have no clue what to make of that, lol. but i suppose it's a good thing, considering that you apparently melted. hehe.
so he added you on Facebook. if you don't want to forget about him, try talking to him on there. just say a quick "hi" or something. i dunno, really, lol.
i know this makes no sense and i'm truly sorry. crying lol.
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Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:13 am
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--Anorexic beauty queen, with painted eyes so toxic...--
Yeeeaaaah... He's awesome. X3
And I feel stupid because the only way I know him is because he's friend's with my friends and their siblings XD
I asked this in another guild, and I was told that I'm just being stupid because 'It's just teenage infatuation/physical attraction'. It's probably true, another reason I should just get over him.
It makes a lot of sense to me XD
He's a year older than me, He's seventeen.
Yes, he tipped his hat to me. XD I feel so silly, but it means he knows I exist XD And that makes me uber happy.
I'll talk to him, obviousy not about dating or anything, but I definately want to know him better.
It's okay, not all boys with the name 'James' are alike X3
--...Flowers painted on her back, centerfold erotic-- |
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Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 7:28 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:42 am
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First of all:: aww, cute~
Well, I liked a guy for three years, since grade nine. We barely ever spoke, usually only if class situations or clubs and such demanded it, you couldn't even call us friends, he generally ignored my existence, and I think now that I was just clinging to the crush because I was desperate. (not applying any of this to you! This is just what happened to me. xD) Then last summer, stuff started changing in my life, and I thought about him less and less, and when I did, it was more forced and force-of-habit than anything. But when we got back to school, seeing him again was just like, BAM. Face into a brick wall. I struggled for a bit, but realized that I don't like him like that anymore, and that just perpetuating this thing I don't truly feel anymore isn't doing me any good, and that I deserve better. (Deserve a truly good guy who treats me like gold [better yet who constantly acknowledges my existence, lol] and that I have really great chemistry with. I just need to ahh... finalize things...with him...? XD I think he likes me, too, but I don't know.) And once I kind of acknowledged that, that it was over and that I was sick of holding out for this guy I don't even care about that much anymore, it got way easier. I feel much better now, and I've moved on :3
So... to make an excruciatingly long, dumb story short, you just kind of have to wait for it to go away. There's no easy way besides distractions (I worked all summer, family commitments and drama and loss and stuff, etc.) to help it along.
(btw... XD Was it a cool hat? I imagined like, a top hat. He earns major points if it was something like that. XP)
On an only slightly-related note... my old crush, all it took for me was to just catch his eye and catch him (I always assumed) looking at me, for me to completely melt into a useless pool of girl. Now, with my current crush, I melt significantly less, only when we touch (and okay... so we touch a lot. XP), but just being around him is like... flying, or something else cliche like that. XDDDD |
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Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:34 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:43 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:50 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 5:06 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 6:56 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 7:05 pm
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Posted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:22 pm
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Posted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:30 pm
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Seems like you really only like him because of physical attraction. A small smile then sets you off. I've been in a similar position xD there's this adorable guy that I swear was always looking at me last year and I developed a small physical attraction-based crush on him. I'd melt everytime I saw him. He was my friend's ex and I was too shy so I couldn't give him a flirty smile. It's weird cuz if I see him in the halls now I'm like 'Oh, there's scruffy!' (my friend that knew came up with the nickname based on that small 'douche-bag beard' he has haha) lol yes I still think about how much I'd like to know him. So what do you do? You try and meet other dudes. You go out with friends, you try to get your mind off of him. Whenever you think of him, just remind yourself that he's not yours and you don't know him. No matter how handsome he is, you don't really KNOW him that well, and you should try and meet someone else worth your time. If you REALLY wanna get to know him, then I say just say hi on facebook. See how he responds. If he seems like he thinks it's weird, just say "oh, sorry, wrong chat window" and make a joke out of it. Then just give him a smile in the halls. Doesn't have to be flirty, just a smile. Good luck on whatever you decide smile
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Posted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 6:21 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 1:59 pm
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