bedroom help

[whatagirlwants]

This thread is for those who would like to give or need sex advice. I ask that we try to keep it PG-13 though that may be hard. If you can't do PG-13 keep it R. If reading your post gets you aroused then too adult. Anyways I have a lot of experience so I think I can answer pretty much any question other than my own that is.


How do you get over the "I'm not in the mood then when I am he's not" cycle?  

[Hester Peche]

As hard as it may be, just do it anyways...you'll get in the mood pretty fast--or he will. You just have to push past it.  

[whatagirlwants]

Hester Peche

As hard as it may be, just do it anyways...you'll get in the mood pretty fast--or he will. You just have to push past it.

well problem is more that he's in the mood first thing in the morning and that's when my joints are the worst. I'm in the mood after we put froggy to bed when my husband is too tired.  

[Sensation Ari]

Surprise him with a sexy outfit. Like.. maybe have a family member or babysitter look after your kid, and wait for your husband to get home with the outfit on.

:3

 

[Matron Mord Sith]

Candy Flavored Kittens

Surprise him with a sexy outfit. Like.. maybe have a family member or babysitter look after your kid, and wait for your husband to get home with the outfit on.

:3

this  

[Hester Peche]

froggymama89

Hester Peche

As hard as it may be, just do it anyways...you'll get in the mood pretty fast--or he will. You just have to push past it.

well problem is more that he's in the mood first thing in the morning and that's when my joints are the worst. I'm in the mood after we put froggy to bed when my husband is too tired.

Ah my boyfriend is like that, then I would deffinately go with what Candy Flavored Kittens said.  

[whatagirlwants]

he doesn't like sexy clothes, he just doesn't get it. Why waste money when neaked women are sexy enough. I think maybe if we tried for baby boy's nap time instead of after he's in bed. My whole thing is I don't want him to hear mommy scream redface and get scared.  

[Sensation Ari]

froggymama89

he doesn't like sexy clothes, he just doesn't get it. Why waste money when neaked women are sexy enough. I think maybe if we tried for baby boy's nap time instead of after he's in bed. My whole thing is I don't want him to hear mommy scream redface and get scared.

Follow my above instructions, but instead just wait naked.

 

[broken_bleeding_angel]

Full body massage! <3

You get relief for your joints and you both get turned on. It's a win/win situation.  

[whatagirlwants]

broken_bleeding_angel

Full body massage! <3

You get relief for your joints and you both get turned on. It's a win/win situation.

me likes this....hmmm and with warm olive oil....now I have to try it (little beauty tip olive oil is very good for your skin)  

[broken_bleeding_angel]

froggymama89

broken_bleeding_angel

Full body massage! <3

You get relief for your joints and you both get turned on. It's a win/win situation.

me likes this....hmmm and with warm olive oil....now I have to try it (little beauty tip olive oil is very good for your skin)

KY warming/tingling massage and lube stuff works nicely too. Though so does mixing 1 tiny drop of mint/peppermint oil/extract with olive oil. It gets all warm and tingly and smells refreshing and great.  

[whatagirlwants]

broken_bleeding_angel

froggymama89

broken_bleeding_angel

Full body massage! <3

You get relief for your joints and you both get turned on. It's a win/win situation.

me likes this....hmmm and with warm olive oil....now I have to try it (little beauty tip olive oil is very good for your skin)

KY warming/tingling massage and lube stuff works nicely too. Though so does mixing 1 tiny drop of mint/peppermint oil/extract with olive oil. It gets all warm and tingly and smells refreshing and great.

I tried KY once I got hives down there  

[delete_my_existence]

yup full body massaging is nice either way, sex or not ^^
or why not make time during the day when you both are equally not in the mood? xD lol  

[broken_bleeding_angel]

froggymama89

broken_bleeding_angel

froggymama89

broken_bleeding_angel

Full body massage! <3

You get relief for your joints and you both get turned on. It's a win/win situation.

me likes this....hmmm and with warm olive oil....now I have to try it (little beauty tip olive oil is very good for your skin)

KY warming/tingling massage and lube stuff works nicely too. Though so does mixing 1 tiny drop of mint/peppermint oil/extract with olive oil. It gets all warm and tingly and smells refreshing and great.

I tried KY once I got hives down there

lol ok so go with the tiny drop of mint and oil then.  

[whatagirlwants]

Shinu_Rei

yup full body massaging is nice either way, sex or not ^^
or why not make time during the day when you both are equally not in the mood? xD lol

ya yesterday we tried it during froggys nap and it went well. I've noticed theres horny, not in the mood, and this middle zone where your willing but you aren't going to go out of your way for it. The tough part is realizing that when you are horny your partner most likely wont be and to ask for sex when your in that middle area. I have no clue what we're gonna do when froggy is too old for naps or doesn't sleep as heavy. Anyone know how not to scream redface ?