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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 6:02 am
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Butterfly kinda reminded me that I was gonna bring this up with her topic on marriage..... so here it is! (and yes, this has bible discussion in it, regardless of how it looks at first haha)
So I have feelings for my best guy-friend... STRONG feelings... and we've dated before, but it didn't work out, so we just stayed friends. He has a girlfriend now... but if they were to break up, I'm pretty sure, if not SURE, that we would get back together eventually. I've had these feelings LONG before I became a christian.. and he's NOT a christian. He refuses to go to church... he doesn't believe that God is THE god that made us... blabla. And I can't convince him otherwise, but I keep praying for him.
So my point is, what if we did get back together, and later in the long run (Hypothetically) we were to get married..and he's a non-believer?? So many people say it wouldn't work... but then I found this...
1Corinthians 7:13 "And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife."
What does this meannn?
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 3:19 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 4:17 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 7:40 pm
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I'm kinda in the same boat. I moved 2,000 miles to be closer to someone that I really care for and to pursue a relationship with him. It's a course I've pretty much dedicated myself to and I'm not likely to go back on it now.
But I'm rather taking into account the spirit of that rule, rather than the letter. We are advised not to be 'unequally yoked' because of how it could interfere with your walk with God. But I don't feel that is in any way threatened. I've never really had a hear for 'evangelism', anyway, not as most people define it, so I'm not likely to put him off by trying to force my beliefs down his throat. And while I'm sure he thinks me a bit silly for what I believe he is very accepting of it. And not being a Christian doesn't mean that one is a bad person or even that one doesn't share the same ideals. It just means that they follow those ideals for the sake of being a decent human being, rather than for the sake of following any deity. I also have to ask myself if God would expect me to love this person any less simply because he isn't a believer
In terms of behavior, this guy would be a much better match than the one I previously dated, who actually was a Christian.
Bottom line-if you can still have a relationship with God even with that person, then I think it's ok. It's just something you have to work out within yourself.
I especially disagree with not having strong friendships with non-Christians. Love is the root of everything Jesus taught us to do and be. And that love is not to be limited simply Christians. "It is not the healthy that need a doctor." Also keep in mind that even though we are saved and the Christs' blood washes away our sins, at the root, not a single one of us can really be considered 'righteous'. We are not any better or really that different from anyone else. They are human, just like we are and vice versa.
But again, it is something you have to work out within yourself. If you don't feel your faith is strong enough and you need more Christians around to keep you accountable, then so be it.
I'm a lot more stubborn, so I can still stand strong, even around people who don't necessarily share that.
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 8:27 am
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 11:59 am
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 4:23 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 6:52 pm
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I think you're both right.
@ixor: My friends don't discourage me from my beliefs, but they don't wanna hear about it either. But what they don't realize is, when they find something that they really love, they wanna share it with everyone else, and we don't roll our eyes, we smile and are happy for them. But when I try to talk about Jesus or anything, most of them roll their eyes and say they don't wanna hear it. They say "Thats great for you..not my thing"...when I'm not even trying to push it on them or anything, I'm just so like excited about the lord and they don't care... it kinda hurts. I do have one friend, however, that listens and smiles and even asks questions.. she is a darwinist though... wants to be a biologist and whatnot... but its really great that she isn't so wrapped up in HER beliefs to not care about mine. :]
But yeah, friends are friends, no matter who they are.
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 9:45 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 11:11 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2009 11:33 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 10, 2009 8:19 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 10, 2009 5:29 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:06 pm
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High-functioning Businesswoman
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Posted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 11:36 pm
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