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Posted: Sun Mar 22, 2009 3:38 pm
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I have a ex boyfriend, and he's liked me on and off ever since we broke up. I don't have any clue why. But every time he starts to like me I distance myself, right? Because I don't want to give him the idea I like him back... Well, I thought we were finally getting past the whole, him liking me thing. He had a girlfriend he'd been dating for over a year, on and off, and I thought it was safe to become good friends with him again. I mean, I'd always wanted him as a friend... So I went to Disneyland with My ex, his girlfriend, and our mutual friend. After the day he texted me and wanted advice because he, "didn't feel the same way" about his current girlfriend anymore. So I told him that its really up to him... I didn't want to get involved... The problem was I had started to feel for him a little and I knew I had to get away form him. I made the mistake of asking him if he had feelings for me.. Of course he did, anyone couldve predicted that... But I felt like it was my fault for letting myself get close to him again. Then I ust got angry at him for trying to get with me when he had a girlfriend... I basically told him to get out of my life. I was tired of the drama. But I feel like I've done the wrong thing... Like I could've handled it better. And I didn't enjoy being harsh with him. I just felt like it needed to be done. Now I don't have feelings for him.. But he broke up with his girlfriend. I feel terrible for hurting her too... I feel like such a b***h.
So was I right, or wring, in the way I handled things?
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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 8:47 pm
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