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I don't go sticking it in just anyone so you know, only when I am in a comfortable relationship.
I really love sex though in many ways and am open to plenty of things in my life.
My motto tends to be, with good common sense on the topic how can something so good be all that bad? I make my choices based on my perspective of right and wrong and am no man whore. I have only been with 4 people since that age and never get laid if I'm not in a relationship. Hope I don't sound like a creep, lol. I'm really a decent guy, just love sex soooo much.
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I lost it a month before my 18th birthday, to my first real boyfriend. (the relationship lasted a year after that). I have never one regretted losing it when I did, or even at all.
When it happened, I just knew I was ready so I was like, yeah, sure. I trusted myself to know and I was right!
22 now, and only 3 partners, all serious relationships. Personally, I love sex - but I would never see myself doing it with someone I wasn't seriously involved with. There is so much trust going on, that I would never be able to pick someone up from a bar (even with a condom). or be able to do it without really knowing them and their history. I'm not putting myself at risk for a stupid night!
additionally, for those of you who want to wait till marriage, or did, or whatever, I knew i wasn't that type of person either! I need to test the gears and mechanics and tools before I really settle in, ya know? make sure everything works right and feels good. . . I have never once felt of myself as being 'soiled' because I didn't wait (some people would be appalled at the idea). More so I think of it as being INFORMED
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