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[Personal] What Should I Call Myself?

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Kunoichi21

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 4:06 pm
I'm not really sure what I consider myself right now. I mean, for the most part I'm straight, and there's only one girl I could ever see myself being with. So my question for peoples:

What am I?  
PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 10:23 pm
You're you. That's what's important, right?

I know it's hard because people these days put so much weight on what you are, and there's almost this stigma out there that you HAVE to be aware. But it's not really a big deal, is it? Liking a certain gender over the other won't change your favorite music or author, right? If you date a girl or a guy, it's still YOU dating that person.

So if you're with a guy, you're with a guy.
And if you're with a girl, you're with a girl.

You shouldn't think "oh, well I'm mostly straight so even though I like this girl I can't date her" or "oh, well I'm sorta gay so I don't think I can date this guy right now, even though I'm interested in him." Seriously.. it doesn't matter who you love -- just THAT you love.  

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 11:59 am
What's your name?

I don't need to know, you do. Because that's who you are.

You do not need to label yourself as anything other than what you are, a human being.  
PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 7:10 pm
You are you, thats all that matters. Sexuality and gender are really fluid, they are always changing
 

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 2:55 pm
Thanks for the help you guys. I really appreciate it! *hugs all of you*  
PostPosted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 5:36 pm
I agree with them, but if you really want to put a label on it, your bi-curious. It just means that you prefer straight, but occasionally wonder to the other side. I hesitated telling you this because you can't let a label define you; you must define the label. No two people are alike and you are uniquely special. Don't ever forget that. whee  

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