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 Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 10:29 am
Ok i have been going out with this guy that i think i lovefor like 3-4 months and all we've done so far is cubble and makeout but i think he wants to do it and i dont know if i should
i am 50-50
half of me is like ok u can do it u love him and its not like ur a slut u waited longer that the rest of ur class (were sophmores almost 15)
The other half is like WOW ur a slut for thinking about it u shoud atleast wait till ur 16
i dont know wat to do and o yeah he is like my first real BF i had one last year but we only went out for 2 weeks B4 he left
HELP sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 10:37 am
You're only 14? D;
Damn just wait.
four months?
Thats nothing.
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:28 am
trust me 4 months in my school is like a lifetime the avarige Relationship lastes 2 weeks
its sad
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:48 am
So why does that mean you have to do what everyone else does?
Just because everyone else's relationships last 2 weeks doesn't mean yours has to. It's not a requirement
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 6:10 am
It doesn't matter how long the average relationship in your school is. That doesn't apply to you, that applies to everyone else that hits the average, so don't even go there.
As for the whole 50/50 deal, just don't do anything you think you may regret later, it really doesn't matter what the other person thinks. If they love you, then they will respect you and your decision.
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 8:01 am
Besides, you shouldn't even be considering having sex, until your absolutely 100% certain of how comfortable you are with the idea. Only then, you should have it when you are certain the relationship will last, through tested means. Which from the sounds of it, at your school is never long. But if he does love you, he will wait, until your comfortable with the idea and until your at least 16. If he leaves you for 'not putting out', then the guys an a*****e.
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 10:24 am
I agree. Don't try an convince yourself one way or the other.. that's a sure sign that you'll regret it later.
Rellik is right. Be 100% sure. Sex is a big deal, especially the first time because you'll never forget it. And dont let other people judge you for it.
** I judge people for it all the time.. but that's cuz im ok with the fact that im an a*****e. pirate
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 11:30 am
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