omgosh i kno how u feel!!~ >< i had a A- on my test an then i heard her murmer * are u stupid?* and i think did u do any better??? yea well i hate that it makes mer want to scream and like litterally like kick my bed to the sealing...
Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 8:57 am
lets see..my mom always says... B: u got to get an A B+: u can't even get an A-,A A-: it's still not an A, u gotta try harder A: u need to get an A+, still A+: u must keep it this way
lol lol
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Valentina Ambrosia Dizon
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 12:17 pm
We're asian. It happen to the majority of us, with those lucky asians who are exceptions, but yes.....it happens to alot of us.
It's mainly because we're asian. It's basically it. High standards...><
Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 9:07 pm
My parents have been strict, but not too strict. My mom expects me to continue to get A's and B's but if I get a C, she will FREAK and start lecturing me (along with my dad) about the importance of not having a bad education or something.... They still don't want me to be a writer, because it involves being lazy since you don't need to go to college in order to be a good writer. It's really annoying. sweatdrop
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asiannerd27
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 11:24 pm
I ALWAYS TRY 2 GET A's CUZ IM SCARED OF MY PARENTS!! AND IF I SAY I TRIED, THEY'LL JUST SAY U DIDNT TRY HARD ENOUGH!! BUT TO THEM A B's STILL OKAY...
Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2007 9:33 am
My 'rents never get mad at me. If i get one F, they won't get mad at me.
But if I'm always failing they will get at me. DX
But i'm usually an A or B student. `=D
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2007 5:51 pm
well y parents dont get mad at me when i get bad grades....hmm, prolly, cuz i dont but they dont care as long as i try my hardest! even tho i'm asian my parents arent that strict. [sometimes i cant spell tho so forgive my errors]
Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2007 5:57 pm
ya know what, if they wanted us to be so smart, they should have stayed in asia!!! since WE won't be as distracted lol...
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Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 6:10 am
yea my 'rents aren't thats strict...they used to when i was like a straight A student in grammar school and i got my first D in school when i skipped a grade...but as i got older they didn't have to worry so much...i get A' && B's i got a C in two classes first semester and all i had to do was explain that it was an AP class and that it's basically a B in regular classes and my mom got over it [try harder next time] my dad was a bit more difficult [you've been spending too much time chatting again] im 17 now my younger 14 yr old sister gets straight A's all focus on grades is on her now [heehee im happy its away from me now]
o yea my rents motivate our higher grades through money $5 bucks an A now thats how you get good grades
Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 1:21 pm
yes, that is what they do.. but they dont yell at me if i get a A-, only anything below it, but they still say " try harder next time"
asian parents seem to have higher expectations of their children. (this is most at least).
I guess it's because they've been a lot in their time.
My parents use to get on me for not getting A's. But since I'm in a University now that is pretty difficult and packed with other asians, the competitions is much harder to get an A. So they're just happy if I get a B now... even though I'm personally not >.<