help plz!!!!!!

[titsmagee]

um this girl asked me out at school and i dont really like her but i said yes because i felt sry for her.
but now she is all clingy and i dont like her
but she is really emotional and i dont know how to brake up.  

[Ritansi]

That is very hard...  

[Allaron]

Well, I would day that you shouldn't have say yes in the first place but that time has come and passed.

You should just come out an tell her how you feel. But do it quickly, the longer you stall, the longer you play on her emotions, the more you are going to hurt her.

And do not crush her too much when you decide to tell her. Say something to the effect that you don't feel ready for a realtionship right now, but maybe in a few months you might be more up to it.

 

[cheesefansmile]

yes do it quickly but dont forget
to tell her the truth and dont over sugar coat it.. that would be bad
as well if your still intrested in being friends tell her that if she ever wants to be your friend your there..

Dont forget to tell her something along the line of i cant chose my feeling and i dont like lying and i think that lying would hurt you more in the end (if this is true.. u dare lie it would be like stabbing her in the back many times.. so dont use it if it does not applie if part of it does then use that part)  

[sunnyxdaze]

You don't go out with a girl because you feel sorry for her... That's a big no-no.

Just tell her that you're not really into a relationship like that.
 

[Kitanshi]

sunnyxdaze

You don't go out with a girl because you feel sorry for her... That's a big no-no.

Just tell her that you're not really into a relationship like that.

I totally agree with sunny!!!  

[SapphireSara2]

Yeah, maybe you should just tell her that you've never been in a relationship before and you don't feel ready (Unless you have been and she knows...)

 

[Captain Katinator]

Welp that's a problem... I'd give you adivce, but mine always sounds rude and it sucks! sweatdrop  

[inulover4]

Say you made the wrong decision and it isn't working out. But don't hurt her feelings, just tell her that you don't want to be that close. If you brake apart gently, not much damage can be done. But if she gets mad, that's her problem.  

[Reayasha]

omg been there just got out of it! but i liked the guy. trust me he was way clingy but i knew it would hurt him. just do it fast and gently. tell her ur not use to this and need some time to grow before dating someone seriosly. maybe wen ur a bit more ready u can try again. this shouldnt hurt her and she might just get another guy by then. best of luck! wink  

[Zorxia]

I don't think you should lie to her. Tell her the truth, but nicely. Don't tell her I'm just not ready for a relationship right now, if that is not the truth. Because if then you do go out with someone else and she finds out, you'll be hurting her a lot. But I do agree that you need to do it soon, not later, the longer you wait the harder it'll be, and more hurt she'll be.
By the way if she asks why you want to break up with her, then also tell her the truth but very nicely. Like do what inulover4 said you maade a wrong dicision, and it's not her fault, it's yours and it's not fair you are hurting her like that, and you are sorry for that, but you believe this is the best for both of you, 'cause in the long run it'll just hurt her more.
but only say this if you really mean it, otherwise, you'll be making worse damage.  

[SgtPeepeR]

I noticed that all your posts say tell her the truth and yet none of the sugested to actualtly tell her the truth i i were you id tell her the real truth
i just went out with you for sympathy sry but i dont have those kind of fealings for you is you want a friend i am her and thats it