Gothic Lolita - in a league of their own?

[Ndoki]

You know I'd love to see one of those gothic lolita guilds.. I'm sure I'd actually fit in for once.  

[Undistinguished]

I've been told it's my style of dress, but I don't think I follow the "rules" enough to be truly lolita.

I favor black lace and flowing cloth and elegant choices in my gothic clothing, yes.

But I also like the more punk type gothic clothing as well, and the days plans always dictate the choices I make.

It serves me well. I've never been turned from a bar or restaurant asking for formal wear, and I've even worn it to my interview at Black Dolls, where ( a big shock, I'm sure) I received the job.

I try to be polite and respectful at all times, but who doesn't slip once in a blue moon?

I love the style but don't think I fit in the section completely, so I never claim it.  

[Ndoki]

Frankly the attitude is second nature for me. Everything in my life is about refinement. I drink martinis by choice, I wear a top hat and have a cane (although there's another one I'd like to get), I smoke cigars... I could go on.. but the point is all that comes second, and is only building on the attitude of being a proper gentleman.  

[xX~Vampyre_Erotica~Xx]

Ndoki

Frankly the attitude is second nature for me. Everything in my life is about refinement. I drink martinis by choice, I wear a top hat and have a cane (although there's another one I'd like to get), I smoke cigars... I could go on.. but the point is all that comes second, and is only building on the attitude of being a proper gentleman.

You should join Loli Dollies! We don't have nearly enough guys.  

[vampyre_smiles]

Like I posted, I'd be a vamp doll... I am generally polite, but "polite" doesn't mean "push over." Cross me and you'll live to see why doing so is a mistake. ^,-,^ <--BTW, who likes my vampyre smiley?  

[Xyercies Uhtred Ragnar]

miturn

GilAskan

Nyed

miturn

hmmm...i guess i would consider them gothic....but let me get this straight; we're not talking about baby doll lolita are we? were talking about gothloli right?

we're talking....

...I'm not gay, but I have to admit, that man is sexy.

*screams* mana!!! he's mine all mine! kids.
okay...so we're talking about gosurori...i think they're cool, though i'm jealous of how mana can look better that a woman in a dress

Oh my sweet dear lord odin......that is by far the second hottest man alive...and by second hottest i mean next in line to johnny depp  

[ronton-ritsuzen]

i consider lolita to be gothic,
they are rather derivative of Victorian times,
and some groups do behave in different ways and have different actions they take.
personally, i think the lolita style is beautiful, but i doubt i could ever be one.
for one thing, i'm far from passive/submissive and lady-like. i wear boyish looking clothes on occasion, and i curse far too much.
damnit.
and also, the delima of my parents HATING anything goth/i.e. anything i'm madly obsessed with.
*sigh*  

[Phimms]

I am a gothic lolita and I still have a problem if I am actually gothic or lolita.
And then I am also a crossdresser too, so, I totally don't know. Mana is considered as gothic, so maybe that ives me some points?
Yes, I think Mana is sexy, and, if you must know, I am a girl.
I think that gothic lolita might be goth and having the exception that it is probably a different type of goth and almost the second type of goth around.
Sorry if this doesn't make anny scence to you.