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I need to talk to someone...seeking advice

Harmonic Tune

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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2014 10:30 am


	+Bump x + so there this situation among friends thats become disastrous. I dont know what to do or what to say. I never had this happen to me. I need advice from someone whos gone through this. I will tell you the details >.< classified_omnomgrunny

Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2014 10:57 am


	+Bump x + any? T^T classified_omnomgrunny

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Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2014 7:39 pm


	Harmonic Tune +Bump x + any? T^T classified_omnomgrunny Can you explain a little bit more people will read about it and might help you.

Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2014 9:47 pm


	Okay what is the situation? I've been in plenty of cases where friends argued, and a lot of times I was the mediator, anyway my advice would be to just listen to both sides of the story if it is some sort of argument before trying to do anything else. Once that's settled try to calm them both down.

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Harmonic Tune

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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 8:21 am


	XxAriaxX Eclairl +Bump x + ok so this is what went down. so theres 3 of us and we are leaders of a club sort of thing anyways 1 of the leaders had left before cuz that person had a crush on one of the members so so it wouldnt be akward person 1 took a break and left before returning. So when it happen again that person 1 was leaving cuz another member person 1 had confined in snitch some information that person wasnt suppose to. So person1 supposly told me that the snitch somehow turn everyone agaisnt em and hate em that they even alinate em and ignore em when they try to help. so supposly person 1 was betrayed. ok so the other leader of the club doesnt believe person1 anything anymore cuz he had left before too. and the other leader is the... president while person 2 and i are vice presidents. so person 2 has control over certain things. its really stupid and i dont think i got the whole story i think they werent telling me the truth just something so i wouldnt worry about them. I had skipped out on a week on vacation and when i return things were diffrent i prtende that either one hadnt told me anything so they can explain to me their point of view but again dont think they told me the whole story classified_omnomgrunny

Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 8:27 am


	+Bump x + so this already passed and person 1 left the club to start their own and it been really weird. we are not complete >.< anyways the member who snitch is no longer there every once in a while drops by but oh i dunno if what they told me was true that means the snitch was breaking us apart crying and our happy fun club is so dull now too emotion_8c Anyways the issue was either person 1 left or kick the member which resulted in person 1 leaving. person 2 didnt do anything about it. person 2 is no longer the same person i thought they were so i no longer want to trust any of them but... i considered them my friends. i kinda the one in the middle. they told me they started talking again but again they stopped talking and ive been hanging out with them seperetly but... each time they say sad bad things about each other as to who was the problem. and i do not know whos right! phew what a rant sad classified_omnomgrunny

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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 8:45 am


	When friends fight, and you're stuck in the middle. You should maybe try to listen and mediate the problem, or keep splitting time between each of them. If you continue to split time between them try not to focus on the rivalry. With time you'll learn things are said that probably shouldn't have been, and friendships will change or evolve based on these. They might come around on their own if you let them sit it out for a while.

Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 8:49 am


	+Bump x + sigh so in other words there was nothing i could have done to save them classified_omnomgrunny

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