Guys often ask their friends if they had sex

[Miss_XxAriaxX]

Hey Girls ! Did you notice that when a guy knows that his friend has a girlfriend, he will ask his friend if they slept together ?

I often overhear conversation like that.

A guy : I met my girlfriend yesterday...
his friend : Did you had sex with her ?

It's not all guys that would talk about their sex life with their friends, but gonk
I was wondering if your boyfriend or husband talk about their sex life to their friends to you feel confortable about this?

Have you talked to your boyfriend or husband about this ''issue'' that sex life is private and he shouldn't talk about it ?

Do you think they are free to talk about this ?

Do you talk about your sex life to your friends O_O ?  

[Clasela]

✿ My partner and I agreed a long time ago, 'what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom'. It's our private life and it will always stay between us.
I mean whilst we do briefly talk about our sex life with friends, we don't share every single detail, nor complain, because that is something that should be discussed between the couple themselves.
I'm completely okay with him talking about 'boy stuff' with his friends, because that's his choice and he has his freedom of that.
I do talk about my sex life with one of my girlfriends, but we talk about everything and so do our boyfriends, to an extent of course.

 

[TheDemonicGuardianAngel]

XxAriaxX

In the school I went to, it wasn't even friends that would ask if a couple had sex; random people would come up to me and my boyfriend ( at the time ) and ask if we've had sex yet. We were together for a very long time, so even people who we didn't know knew we were together; it was... very creepy to say the least.

Honestly it'd irk me when people would ask, I feel that stuff is private and other people shouldn't know. I mean, maybe that's just my preference because I'm 16; maybe when I'm 20 and among friends and we're just having conversations about our boyfriends possibly.

 

[Grombiekins]

I honestly don't know if my boyfriend talks about our sex lives to his pals at all. I wouldn't be surprised if he did; however, I know that he wouldn't talk to random people or folks that he didn't really know about it. Sometimes my best friend and I will talk about our bedroom lives, but I never discuss it with anyone but her.

 

[Seasick Katie]

Woah, this is a good question that I've always thought about!!

I was wondering if your boyfriend or husband talk about their sex life to their friends to you feel comfortable about this? Guy tease each other, just like that girlfriend of yours always prods you for information about your sex life. It happens, guys may even more cruder than girls in a group. So I expect that they are gonna talk, probably really crudely (eeeks!). So I wouldn't expect him to totally shut down his friends. As long as he doesn't give any more information than necessary away, I'm good. They can always try the, "I'm not telling you" smile, I use that all the time.  

[Ebania]

Though my boyfriend and I have never had sex (with each other or with anyone), the particulars of the sexual/erotic side of our relationship are very private. No one knows the details except the two of us. I'm an open book in almost every respect, but not when it comes to sexuality. I keep it to myself.  

[Hersheydudette]

I'm kind of jealous of all these "no" responses. razz My guy and I don't have sex, but I know his friends tell them about their experiences a lot. He thinks it's amusing and a different way to learn more about them, while I would very much not like that part of my life shared with anyone but my partner. Sooooooo yeah. Sometimes people do talk about the details.