I guess I should give a bit of backstory first.
My 'friend' and I have been close since the beginning of seventh grade. Always together and having a blast. Looking back I would say we were two outcasts against the world. But everything started going down in eighth grade, November to be exact. We would get into fights a lot and she would always make me seem like I was the bad guy, I wont deny I might have provoked her but, whats wrong with asking why she would always say "so and so are my best friends, and not one else because they stick by my side all the time." literally RIGHT behind my back in class. She would do this repeatedly, maybe twice or three times a week, different words and different people. It still hurt though. Really badly, to the point I would almost break into tears in the middle of class.
I told her this, I believe, three times. She would always counter it with "oh but (insert sob story here that has nothing to do with what I said)". And I would always want to reply back with "I know you used to cut yourself and you had bad things happen to you too. But why the hell are you treating other people you just met more like a friend than me who stuck by your side through thick and thin, even though you said those things?" (i'm not sure that made sense). Even when we are on facebook messaging you can usually tell when someone is really excited or in my friend's case 'why the hell are you talking to me I'm bored of you' and she would reply back with o.o all the time. Then we would fight and I would angrily get off facebook and cry sometimes.
So, to clear things up, This 'friend' of mine has been making me feel like s**t and makes me feel heart broken and betrayed. Even though I stuck by her through her cutting, and helped break her of her shyness towards others. Yet when I am truly the victim, she tells her personal friend about the fights making her look like the victim, instead of telling him the full story.
I know its obvious that she's not interested in me being her friend, but should I try to talk to her? Ignore her? Ask her if she still wants to be friends?
Forgot to mention:: Over the sumer I was the one starting conversations with her. And when we were deciding what to talk about, I suggested music. she said and I quote "we dont like the same music". Which FYI we do. And she has been stealing a lot of my ideas. I dont mean to sound like a jerk but most of the time I see her talking/posting most of my ideas elsewhere and everyone going 'oooh...ahhh' over things I tell people weeks before.
Anyway I hope I don't sound like such a huge jerk in this but I just want some advice.
Love- Dino
My 'friend' and I have been close since the beginning of seventh grade. Always together and having a blast. Looking back I would say we were two outcasts against the world. But everything started going down in eighth grade, November to be exact. We would get into fights a lot and she would always make me seem like I was the bad guy, I wont deny I might have provoked her but, whats wrong with asking why she would always say "so and so are my best friends, and not one else because they stick by my side all the time." literally RIGHT behind my back in class. She would do this repeatedly, maybe twice or three times a week, different words and different people. It still hurt though. Really badly, to the point I would almost break into tears in the middle of class.
I told her this, I believe, three times. She would always counter it with "oh but (insert sob story here that has nothing to do with what I said)". And I would always want to reply back with "I know you used to cut yourself and you had bad things happen to you too. But why the hell are you treating other people you just met more like a friend than me who stuck by your side through thick and thin, even though you said those things?" (i'm not sure that made sense). Even when we are on facebook messaging you can usually tell when someone is really excited or in my friend's case 'why the hell are you talking to me I'm bored of you' and she would reply back with o.o all the time. Then we would fight and I would angrily get off facebook and cry sometimes.
So, to clear things up, This 'friend' of mine has been making me feel like s**t and makes me feel heart broken and betrayed. Even though I stuck by her through her cutting, and helped break her of her shyness towards others. Yet when I am truly the victim, she tells her personal friend about the fights making her look like the victim, instead of telling him the full story.
I know its obvious that she's not interested in me being her friend, but should I try to talk to her? Ignore her? Ask her if she still wants to be friends?
Forgot to mention:: Over the sumer I was the one starting conversations with her. And when we were deciding what to talk about, I suggested music. she said and I quote "we dont like the same music". Which FYI we do. And she has been stealing a lot of my ideas. I dont mean to sound like a jerk but most of the time I see her talking/posting most of my ideas elsewhere and everyone going 'oooh...ahhh' over things I tell people weeks before.
Anyway I hope I don't sound like such a huge jerk in this but I just want some advice.
Love- Dino
