ok. so before you girls ask if i am using my current boyfriend, lets call him Chance (not his real name). No. i didnt use him. im not like that.
so heres what went down, point A, to Z.
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last year Chance, me, and Brian (not his real name) were all in a single class together and we were partners for EVERYTHING, they were a grade ahead of me.. every day we sat by eachother and were best friends.
somehow. i made both of them like me.
the day before the last day of school, brian (my first crush ever which lasted for months) asked me out because apparently he had liked me for months too.it took 6 months to go on our first date. we hardly ever talked. we didnt see eachother inside of school, or outside of school. that first date was our only one (we didnt even hold hands, it was to a movie so we didnt really talk, and we hugged once). he lied to me about reasons why he couldnt hang out. he is afraid of people. he is afraid of public places. he is afraid of my family. he is afraid of coming over. he was afraid of what his parents would say to me, etc. just before the 8 month mark from the day he asked me out i was just done with him. i broke up with him, told him i knew about all of his lies, and he agreed with me and said he was a jerk. but because the only bad things he did was not hang out with me (he didnt ignore me though, anything but ignoring) and lie to me about one event (because thats the only one i can proove so i cant hold the other ones against him) and because hes acctually really nice and becaues he was my first and only crush ever, i said "hey, grow a pair of balls and give me a call when you want to give this another try." because im just nice like that.
about 3 months passed when Chance started to post stuff on facebook about how there is this girl he really liked. i had no idea it was me. i posted on it asking for her name, and one time i even wrote "is she pretty ^u^?" and he said "yes, shes cute." whenever i would post, his friends would stop posting on the status. so he told me that he would tell me her name in person when he saw me next. so we had lunch together, i got in line and a few people behind me was him and i asked her name, and he laughed. on the way out to class i asked again and he said "i have a question that may answer yours" and then he asked me out and i said yes because, though i didnt like him like that, he really deserved a chance because he is super nice. so that saturday we went and got some really yummy cupcakes ^u^ and it totally working out! <3. we can be so honest with eachother. we talk all the time. he wants to spend time with me, he puts in an effort, he is super sweet and such a gentleman and his family freaking rocks and im sure this is going to last a while.
somehow. i made both of them like me.
the day before the last day of school, brian (my first crush ever which lasted for months) asked me out because apparently he had liked me for months too.it took 6 months to go on our first date. we hardly ever talked. we didnt see eachother inside of school, or outside of school. that first date was our only one (we didnt even hold hands, it was to a movie so we didnt really talk, and we hugged once). he lied to me about reasons why he couldnt hang out. he is afraid of people. he is afraid of public places. he is afraid of my family. he is afraid of coming over. he was afraid of what his parents would say to me, etc. just before the 8 month mark from the day he asked me out i was just done with him. i broke up with him, told him i knew about all of his lies, and he agreed with me and said he was a jerk. but because the only bad things he did was not hang out with me (he didnt ignore me though, anything but ignoring) and lie to me about one event (because thats the only one i can proove so i cant hold the other ones against him) and because hes acctually really nice and becaues he was my first and only crush ever, i said "hey, grow a pair of balls and give me a call when you want to give this another try." because im just nice like that.
about 3 months passed when Chance started to post stuff on facebook about how there is this girl he really liked. i had no idea it was me. i posted on it asking for her name, and one time i even wrote "is she pretty ^u^?" and he said "yes, shes cute." whenever i would post, his friends would stop posting on the status. so he told me that he would tell me her name in person when he saw me next. so we had lunch together, i got in line and a few people behind me was him and i asked her name, and he laughed. on the way out to class i asked again and he said "i have a question that may answer yours" and then he asked me out and i said yes because, though i didnt like him like that, he really deserved a chance because he is super nice. so that saturday we went and got some really yummy cupcakes ^u^ and it totally working out! <3. we can be so honest with eachother. we talk all the time. he wants to spend time with me, he puts in an effort, he is super sweet and such a gentleman and his family freaking rocks and im sure this is going to last a while.
thats besides the point! so we have been dating for 2 months as of today. and yesterday i found out some things that im not sure i wanted to hear, but feel awesome about.
Ok, so chance has three best friends, R - who is a girl, P - who is a guy, and A- who is a guy. KEEP UP WITH NAMES!!!
This is what went down based on what i have learned today and yesterday:
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part 1: so... ever since the breakup, Brian has been talking about me. alot... people who dont know me (or didnt) know me before know who i am only because of how much he talks about me. this is what lead to P and A knowing all about me 3 months before we met which lead to me finding out all of the following.
Part 2: P, A, Chance, and I were playing video games yesterday. somehow the topic got on Brian. P mentioned that when Brian found out that Chance asked me out and i said yes he FLIPPED (because they are friends still). apparently he looked and acted like he was going to freaking kill someone for a good 3 to 4 days. (hehe, you jelly bro >: D )
part 3: then P mentioned breifly that brian had another girlfriend. i was like "ok then?" and i continued with my side of the story which none of the people in the room had heard before.
part 4: i got home and was texting P and i asked who he was dating and how long he had been dating her. he said "Since monday, and hes dating R." who is CHANCES BEST FRIEND. they showed NO SIGN of liking eachother until monday (aka, after chance and i started dating)
part 5: ok, so R had been dating this one guy at another school. they really liked eachother. sunday they broke up. monday she started going out with brian. i have no idea whose idea it was, but the point is, REBOUND. it was as if brian was waiting for R, because he knew news of R dating him would get to me quickly because she and chance and P and A are so close. he showed no sign of liking her. not even P, A, or Chance understand it. i dont either because Brian isnt the type of guy to date a girl like R. they are way too different!
part 6: so my best friend, Tony (not his real name, also a grade higher than me), went to the SAT over the weekend. him and Brian know eachother they used to be friends up until they were both on the baseball team freshman year and he pelted brian in the face with a baseball on accident. brian doesnt really remember that anyways but yea. Tony was the one who kept trying to convince me to break up with brian since school let back in (around the 3 month mark of the relationship between me and brian) but i kept saying no to his idea because brian hadnt done anything wrong and he hadnt had the chance to take his chance. the breakup was ultimately my choice though so he had little to do with it. so at the SAT brian came over (they werent talking and hadnt talked for a while) and he was like, "hey, by the way, im not mad at you anymore.". Tony was like: (in his head: "WTF? why would you be mad at me? is this about that baseball to the face? GET OVER IT") but he acctually just said "why would you be mad at me?". Brian said "come on bro, you should know this." and Tony though for a sec and he was like, "Oh about Kaela?". Brian said :"Yea, but i have a new girlfriend now so... yea..."
Part 2: P, A, Chance, and I were playing video games yesterday. somehow the topic got on Brian. P mentioned that when Brian found out that Chance asked me out and i said yes he FLIPPED (because they are friends still). apparently he looked and acted like he was going to freaking kill someone for a good 3 to 4 days. (hehe, you jelly bro >: D )
part 3: then P mentioned breifly that brian had another girlfriend. i was like "ok then?" and i continued with my side of the story which none of the people in the room had heard before.
part 4: i got home and was texting P and i asked who he was dating and how long he had been dating her. he said "Since monday, and hes dating R." who is CHANCES BEST FRIEND. they showed NO SIGN of liking eachother until monday (aka, after chance and i started dating)
part 5: ok, so R had been dating this one guy at another school. they really liked eachother. sunday they broke up. monday she started going out with brian. i have no idea whose idea it was, but the point is, REBOUND. it was as if brian was waiting for R, because he knew news of R dating him would get to me quickly because she and chance and P and A are so close. he showed no sign of liking her. not even P, A, or Chance understand it. i dont either because Brian isnt the type of guy to date a girl like R. they are way too different!
part 6: so my best friend, Tony (not his real name, also a grade higher than me), went to the SAT over the weekend. him and Brian know eachother they used to be friends up until they were both on the baseball team freshman year and he pelted brian in the face with a baseball on accident. brian doesnt really remember that anyways but yea. Tony was the one who kept trying to convince me to break up with brian since school let back in (around the 3 month mark of the relationship between me and brian) but i kept saying no to his idea because brian hadnt done anything wrong and he hadnt had the chance to take his chance. the breakup was ultimately my choice though so he had little to do with it. so at the SAT brian came over (they werent talking and hadnt talked for a while) and he was like, "hey, by the way, im not mad at you anymore.". Tony was like: (in his head: "WTF? why would you be mad at me? is this about that baseball to the face? GET OVER IT") but he acctually just said "why would you be mad at me?". Brian said "come on bro, you should know this." and Tony though for a sec and he was like, "Oh about Kaela?". Brian said :"Yea, but i have a new girlfriend now so... yea..."
So he talks about me all the time, he freaked out when he found out that Chance and I were dating, he got with my boyfriends best friend the day after she broke up with her boyfriend and showed no sign of it before hand, (and if he wanted to be in a relationship there are tons of other girls), he is flaunting R around chance and I and everyone else, AND hes talking about it and bringing me up and her up around my best friend when they hadnt talked in YEARS.
So, is it just me, or is he jealous of Chance and I, and therefore trying to make me jealous of him and R? i find this so funny! XD rofl and the few friends i have talked to about it find it funny and they think the same thing because they know all of the people involved with this post.
opinions? XD am i crazy or is he seriously being an idiot? and if he really is using R, what can i do to help her? shes my friend too and i dont want her to get hurt by him trying to hurt me.
