Just a quick series of questions and a brief background.
Background:
In high school I was head over heels for a really great guy friend of mine, let's call him E, we had a falling out after I confessed to him and when I started college we began getting to be semi-close again. It wasn't until recently that I began getting super close to my mutual friend, let's call her Z, we talk about just about everything, even more so sex related topics, E doesn't and it usually makes him uncomfortable to be around when we do.
Well today when I was talking to her about how for the past few weeks I've been blue ballin' a friend of mine, Let's call him F, (he keeps showing up at my house drunk/hung over and refuses to tell me who he likes - note: all i do is tease him! Also I have a crush on him which he knows about and doesn't return the feelings but we've cleared it up and moved passed it.) Well E didn't leave my side. Actually, he started getting overly touchy and it brought up some old feelings, I couldn't think of a polite way to ask him to stop since I kept playing back so here's my series of questions!
Questions:
Do you have any tips for making him realize I took him serious and still am when he said he could never see himself dating me (he said it over three years ago, but recently he said I haven't changed a bit since high school)
Also how can I make him realize I'm not a toy to play with when he thinks it's okay and i can't think of a way to say no politely?
Even more so do you think that he sees me as some type of easy girl? (I mean i know i'm overly touchy and flirty without realizing it but I honestly didn't think he'd get the impression that I was 'open for business' so to speak)
Background:
In high school I was head over heels for a really great guy friend of mine, let's call him E, we had a falling out after I confessed to him and when I started college we began getting to be semi-close again. It wasn't until recently that I began getting super close to my mutual friend, let's call her Z, we talk about just about everything, even more so sex related topics, E doesn't and it usually makes him uncomfortable to be around when we do.
Well today when I was talking to her about how for the past few weeks I've been blue ballin' a friend of mine, Let's call him F, (he keeps showing up at my house drunk/hung over and refuses to tell me who he likes - note: all i do is tease him! Also I have a crush on him which he knows about and doesn't return the feelings but we've cleared it up and moved passed it.) Well E didn't leave my side. Actually, he started getting overly touchy and it brought up some old feelings, I couldn't think of a polite way to ask him to stop since I kept playing back so here's my series of questions!
Questions:
Do you have any tips for making him realize I took him serious and still am when he said he could never see himself dating me (he said it over three years ago, but recently he said I haven't changed a bit since high school)
Also how can I make him realize I'm not a toy to play with when he thinks it's okay and i can't think of a way to say no politely?
Even more so do you think that he sees me as some type of easy girl? (I mean i know i'm overly touchy and flirty without realizing it but I honestly didn't think he'd get the impression that I was 'open for business' so to speak)
