my situation...The guy i am with as of right now, I found some things and i thought he was cheating on me. I confronted him and he said I was the only girl that mattered to him. he has alot of friends that are girls. If i brake up with him then theres a 50 50 that he might kill himself cause suposedly he cant live without me. my qestion is Is this a guy that is kinda controlling? should I stay with him? is our time together up? I need help. Advice on what to do please.
Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2012 2:13 pm
I'm pretty sure he won't kill himself. He's probably just trying to manipulate you to stay with him, and if he really cared about you he wouldn't do that.
so is he like bossy me around to stay with him? should I for a little longer?
Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2012 3:16 pm
It sounds like manipulation. I agree with what Aulette wrote.
When I finally decided to end the quasi-relationship I had with this guy who I discovered was two-timing me, he went all "depressive" on me writing that he's going to die if I leave him. I left him, regardless. He lied and cheated once, he will do it again and I do not want to waste my time on someone who doesn't deserve it. He's still alive and well, so I've heard.
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Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2012 5:46 pm
you should really break up with him |:
Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2012 11:34 pm
People who say that the are going to kill themselves are just saying it for attention. usually a person wont tell you if they are actually going to go through with it because they do not want to be stopped.
ok so i am still with him but some days i think i really do need to break up with him. at the same time he the only guy that took some intrest in me. i guess i dont want to leave. the same time i kinda do. i going to learn to drive at the end of the month and we will not talk as much we went from talking all the time to once every other day and now he does not ask me qestions about my day much anymore more but more of "baby i missed you" ILYs and lovey dovey stuff. I still need help!!!!!!!!!
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