2 questions - tampon and virginity

[- Nanokax -]

soo, ..

1. Tampon - I started to wear tampon, but i have a problem. I feel it. It's like, he wants to get out, and it hurt me .. I can't be "cool" with it, .. My cousin says it's normal, but i keep feeling it ! what can i do ? D:

2. My friend, lost her virginity 2 days ago, and she didn't bleed. but when she goes to the bathroom, she bleed. Is that normal ? ( they did't use a condom, and she didn't take anything. 50% chance of getting pregnant )


Well, ty for any advice smile  

[Lady Kira X]

1. try to find a smaller tampon.

2. I didn't bleed either... however, I don't know why she's bleeding when she goes to the bathroom. I don't think it has anything to do with them not using protection though.  

[loonaboots]

Uh, they make slender fit tampons, and regular ones. Try slender fit. (I feel like a perv typing that... XDDD)

and I don't know about the last one.  

[- Nanokax -]

Lady Kira X

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i wear the smaller i can get (mini)  

[Kaiyle Brightblade]

Tampons might not be for you. A girl bleeds because her layer of skin protecting her v****a, called her hymen, was broken. Athletic girls maybe have already broken or partially broken their hymen before they have sex, so they do not bleed. I don't know about the bleeding when she goes to the bathroom though.  

[TH3_G1ITCH_]

I agree with Kaiyle.
If you're using the smallest tampon and it's still not comfortable then maybe it's not for you.

As for the bleeding your friend is having, is it everytime she goes to the bathroom?
Perhaps she should go to the doctors D: I don't know what else to suggest and i've always been one for "better safe then sorry"  

[Chibi_Madoka5]

If yur not comfortable with tampons then its just best to wear pads. as for the bleeding thing i cant really much give you and an answer for that to be honest.  

[- Nanokax -]

thanks girls :3

about the tampon, i didnt wear it again, but now its summer and im kind of scared because of the beach.. and i think that he will show up when im going in 3 days vacation with my bf :L

my friends doesn´t want to go to the doctor cause she is only 14 and dont want her mon to find out. but she said the bleed stop, so..

 

[Call Me Nefret]

You could be like me. 50% of the time, I put a tampon in wrong. I've been doing it for years, and I still carry extras with me just in case I have to redo it.  

[- Nanokax -]

nefret2011

You could be like me. 50% of the time, I put a tampon in wrong. I've been doing it for years, and I still carry extras with me just in case I have to redo it.

yeah, is that. in the past month i realise that because i try to push it in a diferent way, and i didn't feel it. but now i can't put it where it was. damn.

 

[Kitty-in-a-hole]

your freind should definatly go to the doctors. you can always ask your doctor to keep it confidencial and would'nt your freind rather get in trouble from her mom than end up in severe physical trouble? get her to a doctor, check for sti's and pregnancy while she's at it.  

[SilentFantasies]

You should try the different ways of putting them in. I didn't actually use a tampon till I turned 16-17, I didn't like them.
Also make sure you take them out the same way you put them in, I hurt myself 2 months ago and my body is still like wtf sweatdrop
You could try leaning against a wall or sitting differently.
Try using the super light ones, I can't use anything but regular or lower for 99% of brands.
Also, brands can give different comfort levels, I like the Kotex Regulars.

As for your friend, even if it stopped, it doesn't matter. My best friend got a UTI because she didn't know she was supposed to pee after sex. That is a little young to be doing anything neutral Especially unprotected. You might be able to hit up a Planned Parenthood in your area. If she gets allowance she should be able to hail a cab there.  

[Allie23]

I had the same problem. I didn't wear tampons when I was younger because they were just uncomfortable for me. But like people have said, you can put them in wrong (weird, huh?) and that can make them uncomfortable.

Also, I think your friend should go see the doctor. I know she doesn't want to tell her parents that she is sexually active, but she really needs to talk to a doctor. A doctor can check her out and make sure that there is nothing wrong and can answer questions she has about sex.  

[Art Greylace]

Get your friend to a doctor. Go to a walk-in clinic or something. Most doctors will respect her privacy, because it's bad to punish you for being safe. If she doesn't want to do it, talk to one yourself and see what you can find out. or call a kid's help line. most of those are anonymous.

And tell her to use a condom next time. You can get them free at events and stuff, and trust me- compare the s**t you get with your parents for sex? make that quintuple for getting pregnant. USE PROTECTION. Honestly? take the pill if you can, as an added security.